I hate feeling this way...

[teengirlforchrist]

I dont know whats wrong with me I’ve been angry lately and I feel so heavy.. i've been crying for most of the day. I've been praying and asking god to help me..I just dont know how to deal with my emotions right now.. And its so weird because It just came out of the blue. I dont really have anyone to go to and talk to about how i’m feeling, I got in an argument with my mom. My dad is not here. my brothers won't care. My "friends" wont understand And I go to my youth leaders so much about thing I don't want to bother them. I just really need some support. I'm tired of feeling like this...

 

[IDEAtor]

Hi. It is good that you can share your feelings. Something that you will grow to appreciate is that a person is more than his or her feelings. Prayer is never bad, but you can pray while taking action. I suggest, in this instance, that you not just meditate on your gross feelings; rather, praise God and move to some uplifting music (even if it is just tapping your fingers with the songs).

It is important to lay your burden down before God, but once that is done-- get up. King David did this after a horrible experience. Even though God did not grant his request (his firstborn died), David chose to get off of the ground and eat some food. In other words, he eventually understood that "it" (the horrible situation) was in God's hands. He chose to trust God and go on living life.

God alone knows your pain, frustration, wrongs and where you have been wronged. He knows the seemingly insignificant moments in your day, and He knows the BIG problems or praises on your mind. God loves you, even when you do not feel that good feeling of being loved in the best way. He loves you, through and though. He loves your too-busy youth leaders, aggravating mother, and uncaring brothers, and misunderstanding friends, too. Therefore, God is the right one to keep seeking. BUT, do not be idle in your seeking.

Find an activity that will signify your love for God that is safe and not waking anyone up and do that activity.
Write; sing/make music/listen to music that helps you relax in the Lord; stretch/exercise; step away from the electronic devices; create a game from art supplies in your room (challenge: base it off of Galatians 5)----- those are just some ideas.
Oh, and, of course, read the Word, listen to it, read it to yourself in front of the bathroom mirror, thinking on how it might apply in your life. (A good scripture for this is: "The Lord made me...")

Pray for those with whom you have issue. Ask God to bless them. It will do something in your heart... eventually.

To God be the glory.

(my ideas are not to be answers in themselves, only a motivation for you to find the best fit for your current need.)

--IDEA

 

[RememberTheSabbathDay]

I dont know whats wrong with me I’ve been angry lately and I feel so heavy.. i've been crying for most of the day. I've been praying and asking god to help me..I just dont know how to deal with my emotions right now.. And its so weird because It just came out of the blue. I dont really have anyone to go to and talk to about how i’m feeling, I got in an argument with my mom. My dad is not here. my brothers won't care. My "friends" wont understand And I go to my youth leaders so much about thing I don't want to bother them. I just really need some support. I'm tired of feeling like this...

Teengirlforchrist,


Hello there little one. I would like to ask you if you have ever heard of Electromagnetic Radiation and if your home has this gadget called a SMART METER that was installed by the power company which has been replacing the Analog Meters. These new meters according to research has the ability to change the structure of your blood cells which has a bearing on mood swings. Can you ask your mom to check to see if this SMART METER is on your dwelling and if so, can she look up the side effects its having on the public globally? Also I would like to hear from you to find out if such meter is on your dwelling if you wish. Plus foods that is void of nutrients have a negative effect on our mood.

The best to you little one. Do pick up God's word daily and feed on it daily that it may equip you to deal with the enemy of souls and that you may be nourished through and through.

 

[darla]

I'm sorry for what your going through , all I can say is God is the only one that will be your help and strength when thbe your comforter in times of troubled heart . I've been through enough in my own life to know that only God was my help and strength . He's only waiting for us to come to him . Be Still And Know That I Am God . He knows your pain and your answer for every situation is either on the way or it will come in God's right timing .

 

[Angela53510]

Being a teenager is a volatile time of life. The hormones push you up and down, the pressures of school, family and church are very real, and can be amplified out of proportion. I am an old lady, very sick with a chronic illness, and I would not want to go back to being a healthy teenager for anything.

Which is to say, I understand!

My thought is to start journalling. It may not do a lot for you now, but as God brings you through these years, you will be able to look back and reflect how God's hand was always on you.

Another really important thing you can do is get a modern, readable translation of the Bible, and read the New Testament and Psalms to start off with. God will speak to you through his Word, and you can also write that in your journal.

Finally, find a guidance counsellor at school, or maybe someone at church that you can talk to who can counsel you a bit as to what you are going through.

If the emotions keep jumping around, I would suggest you might want to talk to a doctor. Although they cannot give you a diagnosis if your mental health is rocky, they can refer you to someone who can help.

Praying God will help you through this dark place.

 

[MaranathaSoonQuick]

I'm sure someone can relate: PS 6 »

[h=3]Prayer for Mercy in Time of Trouble.[/h][h=4]For the choir director; with stringed instruments, [a]upon an eight-string lyre. A Psalm of David.[/h]6 O Lord, (A)do not rebuke me in Your anger,
Nor chasten me in Your wrath.
2 Be gracious to me, O Lord, for I am (B)pining away;
(C)Heal me, O Lord, for (D)my bones are dismayed.
3 And my (E)soul is greatly dismayed;
But You, O Lord—(F)how long?

4 Return, O Lord, (G)rescue my [b]soul;
Save me because of Your lovingkindness.
5 For (H)there is no [c]mention of You in death;
In [d]Sheol who will give You thanks?

6 I am (I)weary with my sighing;
Every night I make my bed swim,
I dissolve my couch with (J)my tears.
7 My (K)eye has wasted away with grief;
It has become old because of all my adversaries.

8 (L)Depart from me, all you who do iniquity,
For the Lord (M)has heard the voice of my weeping.
9 The Lord (N)has heard my supplication,
The Lord (O)receives my prayer.
10 All my enemies will (P)be ashamed and greatly dismayed;
They shall [e]turn back, they will (Q)suddenly be ashamed.

[h=4]Footnotes:[/h]

1. Psalm 6:1 Or according to a lower octave (Heb Sheminith)
2. Psalm 6:4 Or life
3. Psalm 6:5 Or remembrance
4. Psalm 6:5 I.e. the nether world
5. Psalm 6:10 Or again be ashamed suddenly