update on my marriage

[pinkbooks]

With my previous post. I was finding it hard to forgive my husband and trust him.
I was in such pain . I had no where to turn but to our farther. I was tempted to have an affair as I was so lonely.
I prayed instead. I am Catholic and prayed yesterday the rosary and just gave everything up to our lord and Mother Mary.
My husband all ways put his family first. And his brother invited himself over for valentines days. So when I prayed I cried my eyes out. And I told our lord. Things are what they are. I can't change my husband and how he feels and treats me. All I can do is give it to our father. If my husband wont love me. Nothing I can do. And told mg husband the same. And I told my husband that I dont expect anything from him. I cant change him.

and I was so amazed. When my husband brought me a big bunch of flowers and my favourite swiss chocolates . And he kissed me with such warmth.
And he told his brother its valentines days. And need s to spend the day with my wife.

When I gave up all my fear , hurt and wants to our farther. And just loved God. Saw a change in my husband

me and husband have a work to do. To build trust again. But I have some hope now.

thank you all that prayed for me.

 

[Joidevivre]

Thank you for sharing this. It is true that when we give up all control and take the yoke(s) of expectation off of our husbands - and when we surrender to accept what he can give and can't give, things usually change. Your words "just loved God" must have pleased God so much.

May you keep loving your husband by the power of the Holy Spirit living in you. May you both be richly blessed in your marriage and through your struggles become able to help others who will need your testimony someday. And may your husband's heart turn fully to the Lord and to you.

God bless you Pinkbooks.

Joi