my husband not coming back is a lie

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gooseberry

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hello. i went on chat and some man asked me the question on mic that what is my favrite food i like on celebration.

i have been hungry for 2 days and i said that and then everyone on chat asked me how i have computer and laughing at me saying that.
like i was lying. so i said my husband has gone and some one sent me that he will not come back.

my husband is gone away because he has loans he could not pay and police complaint is there on him. that is why he has left me. i am alone here but i am scared i have no money and they will find me and beat me.

i am married and i cannot go anywhere without him. if something happened to him, i too should die.

i dont know where he is but i am christian. he also is a christian. he helped in church and he prays but he has taken other's money. is it wrong? is not our family supposed to give us money?

God also says give to others. we are not criminals but now my husband has to go like one.
 
tourist

tourist

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No, you and your husband are not criminals. God does say to give to the least of your brother or sister and I do pray that God sends help to you. Please do not lose hope. All is not lost although it appears that way.
 
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gooseberry

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thank you very much.

even church members , we have taken loans from them, some are in my name. i don't go to church anymore on wednesday this woman from church came to me and said your husband is a cheat. thief.

i am called bad words because of this. the pastor also told people not to give us money. is this how christians are? they are worst.
 
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Ugly

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So your husband has stolen so much money that he has to go into hiding. He's had problems with the law. He has abandoned you and now both of your lives are at risk. You take out loans you aren't able to pay back. Yet everyone else is the bad guy because you and your husband have ruined your own reputations by stealing and breaking the law? This isn't about Christians being the worst, this is about Christians using wisdom. That you somehow try to guilt and condemn people because they have the wisdom to see when someone is not trustworthy speaks more to your character, or lack thereof than how bad others are for not giving you money.

Yes, it is wrong to take others money if you promise to pay back and then don't. Or if you take it without permission. Christians are not supposed to give money to people who steal and squander their money.
And say you aren't criminals, yet the police are after you, your own church members no longer trust you because of your fleecing them for money and you can't go anywhere because you will be beaten or killed because of all the wrong activity you have both been involved in.
I'm not understanding how you can talk about all the wrong you and your husband have done, yet act as though you are somehow the victims of everyone elses cruelty. And by cruelty i mean people giving you money until they realize it's a waste of time.
This is just consequences of your own behavior, and now you think it's someone elses job to clean up your mess. Time to take responsibility for your own choices and own actions and stop blaming everyone else for having the brains to see what you are really doing.
 
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gooseberry

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I am very sorry.

I have done great wrong. not just in this but in other matters that i cannot discuss. i have lied. i am sorry. I want to delete my account here.

God bless you all.
 
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gooseberry

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i tried very hard. i am sorry. God is good. this earth is not good. too much hardship. only God is good. sorry.
 
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presidente

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If you are in the US, your husband shouldn't run away over debt if he's scared of the police, not unless they are corrupt. We have bankruptcy in this country, and they don't throw people into debtor's prison except I cases of not paying child support.

Are these brothers in the mafia?

If your husband left you where other people will beat you up instead of him, that's pretty low. I hope that's not what is happening. Maybe you could go to a pastor of your church and tell him your situation and tell him you haven't eaten in two days. Some churches have a benevolence fund even if they don't advertise it.
 
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mystikmind

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The whole thing seems a bit odd too me, normally if people invest in a business, they would understand the risks? Businesses often don't succeed, but as long as there was no deception, normally people, especially Christians, will accept the loss? If there was deception, well that usually does tent to annoy people. Also if people think the person they lent money too is 'holding out' on them, then that will annoy them even more.
 
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the OP of this thread admitted she lied about the subject and deleted her account..
 
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