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Good day everyone,
I am not sure if I did wrong in this situation so I need your insight.
In March I let my pregnant niece and her boyfriend move in with me. We were in agreement that they would pay $400 a month for rent including utilities.
They moved in the second week in March and she told me she would pay me $300 for that month. We'll she didn't pay me she bought a futon bed instead. I let it go because that's what I do. So in April they were having a hard time paying rent so I agreed to let them pay $300 instead. By this time because I rely on renters to pay rent I fell a little behind on bills and on top of that they were getting eaten up by fleas. I called in and exterminator to do a heat treatment because I didn't want her to suffer from chemicals because of her pregnancy and he has asthma. So this month instead of paying rent he bought them two new phones and cases which he told me was $400. They only gave me $200 for rent. When I asked where the rest of the rent was coming from my niece said she would work on it and he said he couldn't afford to pay for two people and I left it at that.
Today I sat and had a talk with them about how their not pay rent resulted in me having to shut off cable and no longer using the AC. I asked them both to come up with a plan on how they can come up with the rest of the rent. I told them that what they were doing was taking advantage of me and living off me when I am a single mother of two children who cannot support them in addition to my own kids. I simply cannot afford it. He started yelling at me telling me that he didn't need this bs and that he was doing his part and some other colorful words that I would not share. He was done talking to me and he walked away. My niece just sat there saying nothing. I told her about a few programs in the area where they could help her come with with rent money especially since she's pregnant, not working and about to give birth. I told my niece I would never kick her out because she was in need but if he was going to be disrespectfull to me like that in my home then he could leave. They are moving their stuff out as I write this message. I feel so horrible and feel like I did something wrong.
I am not sure if I did wrong in this situation so I need your insight.
In March I let my pregnant niece and her boyfriend move in with me. We were in agreement that they would pay $400 a month for rent including utilities.
They moved in the second week in March and she told me she would pay me $300 for that month. We'll she didn't pay me she bought a futon bed instead. I let it go because that's what I do. So in April they were having a hard time paying rent so I agreed to let them pay $300 instead. By this time because I rely on renters to pay rent I fell a little behind on bills and on top of that they were getting eaten up by fleas. I called in and exterminator to do a heat treatment because I didn't want her to suffer from chemicals because of her pregnancy and he has asthma. So this month instead of paying rent he bought them two new phones and cases which he told me was $400. They only gave me $200 for rent. When I asked where the rest of the rent was coming from my niece said she would work on it and he said he couldn't afford to pay for two people and I left it at that.
Today I sat and had a talk with them about how their not pay rent resulted in me having to shut off cable and no longer using the AC. I asked them both to come up with a plan on how they can come up with the rest of the rent. I told them that what they were doing was taking advantage of me and living off me when I am a single mother of two children who cannot support them in addition to my own kids. I simply cannot afford it. He started yelling at me telling me that he didn't need this bs and that he was doing his part and some other colorful words that I would not share. He was done talking to me and he walked away. My niece just sat there saying nothing. I told her about a few programs in the area where they could help her come with with rent money especially since she's pregnant, not working and about to give birth. I told my niece I would never kick her out because she was in need but if he was going to be disrespectfull to me like that in my home then he could leave. They are moving their stuff out as I write this message. I feel so horrible and feel like I did something wrong.
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