feeling so much anger

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brisalilly

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I just wish i could go outside and scream and take all the anger i feel right now. My brother in law has been staying in my house for over 2 months already since he lost his job. I felt sorry for him so i told my husband it was ok for him to stay at our house for only 2 months. He is a lazy person doesnt help around the house my husband and i go to work all day and he just stays all day watching tv or asleep. Is not right he should at least go out and look for a job but oh yeah every weekend he goes out and comes home next morning. I dont feel comfortable coming to my own house from work to no more just by seeing him there in the couch all day on the phone depresses me. He is a 40 year old individual and always depends on my husband. When i met my husband that same brother in law was leaving with him and was not helping my husband with the rent nor anything and when my brother in law got a job and started making some money he totally ignored my husband. He wouldnt answer his calls nor come to visit him. Thats why i dont like him he only uses my husband when he is need. What really got me mad is the fact that my husband gave him a key to the house now he treats our house like is his. I want to tell him to leave my house soon but i dont know how. Need help i feel so my anger for that person and i dont want him in my house.
 
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FlyDragon

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haha...this brings back good old memories as this is a mirror image situation that happened to me!! My brother in law too stayed with us for a period of time!

Patience was much needed.

IMO-Your husband may need to talk to him in regards to finding a job and moving out soon if he wants to make wife happy!!

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Ugly

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Tell your husband how you feel and what you would like to see done. Not strangers on the internet. And do so without blowing up on your husband or making demands but just share what you feel about the situation and see what solution the two of you can come to together.
 
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