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Hi all, I'm new here and this is my first post.
I'm a 36 yr old single mum. I have recently started attending church again after many years away.
Right now I don't consider myself a Christian and i am so confused about where I am in life and what I'm sposed to be doing here.
I was never brought up in a Christian family but since I was 5 I attended Sunday school. I stayed at that church all through childhood and eventually lived with a couple from the church when I was a teenager.
I eventually moved out and fell in with the wrong crowd. I didn't have the strength to stay away. I felt like the church had judged me but my new friends were so welcoming and didn't judge.
After I had a baby outside of marriage I think that's when my church gave up on me and when my second baby died, that's when I eventually turned my back on God. I could never understand why He would give me something so precious only to take her away again a few days later.
Anyway, fast forward to the present. I had kept in touch with people from the church and decided to go back. This was 2 years ago. Nothing had changed. I would sit through Sunday service crying to myself wishing that someone would notice my pain but they never did because they never cared.
These past few months I've joined a new church. It's so different to my old church but I still don't have friends.
I'm trying to find my way back to what is good but I can't do it on my own. I'm lost and I'm lonely and I'm tired of having to do everything by myself.
Am I seriously that much of an awful person that no one wants to be friends with me?? Is this life my punishment for turning my back on God??
I really just don't know what to do any more
I'm a 36 yr old single mum. I have recently started attending church again after many years away.
Right now I don't consider myself a Christian and i am so confused about where I am in life and what I'm sposed to be doing here.
I was never brought up in a Christian family but since I was 5 I attended Sunday school. I stayed at that church all through childhood and eventually lived with a couple from the church when I was a teenager.
I eventually moved out and fell in with the wrong crowd. I didn't have the strength to stay away. I felt like the church had judged me but my new friends were so welcoming and didn't judge.
After I had a baby outside of marriage I think that's when my church gave up on me and when my second baby died, that's when I eventually turned my back on God. I could never understand why He would give me something so precious only to take her away again a few days later.
Anyway, fast forward to the present. I had kept in touch with people from the church and decided to go back. This was 2 years ago. Nothing had changed. I would sit through Sunday service crying to myself wishing that someone would notice my pain but they never did because they never cared.
These past few months I've joined a new church. It's so different to my old church but I still don't have friends.
I'm trying to find my way back to what is good but I can't do it on my own. I'm lost and I'm lonely and I'm tired of having to do everything by myself.
Am I seriously that much of an awful person that no one wants to be friends with me?? Is this life my punishment for turning my back on God??
I really just don't know what to do any more