Is this normal or weird?

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Rebecca2002

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So me and my friend are in the 8th grade. We hang out a lot and she likes to put her feet on my lap, I think they're cute cuz she has long toes and always keeps them pedicured.

Anyways so here's what happened, we were hanging out in my room watching a movie and I left for a few minutes to do some stuff.

When I got back she was asleep in a funny way. Like she was asleep on the bed but her feet were sticking out on top of the TV stand (which is next to the bed). And she kicked off her socks in her sleep cuz her socks were on the TV stand too =P

Anyways so I started watching the movie again, but I got distracted cuz her feet were in front of the TV and her toes kept wiggling a lot, so I started playing around with them.

For example I pushed her toes back and forth, and they would start wiggling by themselves =P. Then I would hold them still to make them stop wiggling. Sometimes I did that when a song was playing on TV and her toes would start wiggling to the beat of the song =P. So then I played some songs on my phone and pushed her toes around to make them wiggle to the beat.

I think she was dreaming about dancing the whole time, cuz I kept pushing her toes around =P. Like sometimes her toes would start wiggling to a rhythm by themselves, for like a really long time. But there's no music playing so she must be dreaming about the music =P. And her toes follow voice commands too, like if I whisper "twinkle toes" then her toes would start wiggling. If I say "ballet toes" then her toes would flex and make a point like a ballerina =P

Anyways is it normal that I was amused and liked playing around with her feet? I don't think I'm a weirdo cuz I'm nice, social, and people like me :) Thanks!
 
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VioletReigns

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Hi Rebecca. This is a new one to me, I'll give ya that. :rolleyes: I do know that you are quite young and there is no end to the predators and weirdos on the internet who may try to engage you in an offensive and dangerous conversation regarding your post -- so stay away from any suggestive messages, PLEASE!.

As for normal, who would know what that was in this abnormal crazy world? Plus it's Monday and it's a dreary day here in Central Texas. I'm just sitting here listening to Radiohead and daydreaming about space.

[video=youtube;OwgWsE2k4eA]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OwgWsE2k4eA[/video]
 

blue_ladybug

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Ummm.. I don't even know how to respond to this.. :confused:
 
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biblicalsandy

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So me and my friend are in the 8th grade. We hang out a lot and she likes to put her feet on my lap, I think they're cute cuz she has long toes and always keeps them pedicured.

Anyways so here's what happened, we were hanging out in my room watching a movie and I left for a few minutes to do some stuff.

When I got back she was asleep in a funny way. Like she was asleep on the bed but her feet were sticking out on top of the TV stand (which is next to the bed). And she kicked off her socks in her sleep cuz her socks were on the TV stand too =P

Anyways so I started watching the movie again, but I got distracted cuz her feet were in front of the TV and her toes kept wiggling a lot, so I started playing around with them.

For example I pushed her toes back and forth, and they would start wiggling by themselves =P. Then I would hold them still to make them stop wiggling. Sometimes I did that when a song was playing on TV and her toes would start wiggling to the beat of the song =P. So then I played some songs on my phone and pushed her toes around to make them wiggle to the beat.

I think she was dreaming about dancing the whole time, cuz I kept pushing her toes around =P. Like sometimes her toes would start wiggling to a rhythm by themselves, for like a really long time. But there's no music playing so she must be dreaming about the music =P. And her toes follow voice commands too, like if I whisper "twinkle toes" then her toes would start wiggling. If I say "ballet toes" then her toes would flex and make a point like a ballerina =P

Anyways is it normal that I was amused and liked playing around with her feet? I don't think I'm a weirdo cuz I'm nice, social, and people like me :) Thanks!
It is hard to know if it was normal or not, as playing with someone's toes is not a bad thing..unless that person told you not to..Only you know what you were thinking about while doing it, that might make it abnormal. Example..Were you doing it to create something hurtful, or was it done to fill boredom, or to appreciate each other's differences, or to say "Wow God is truly an artist, he creates many things!"..I hope this helped..P.S. I did strange things in my sleep too, I would sing, I would argue, I would even knock on walls, and snored. What someone did to me while I was asleep out of curiosity, like some thought it would be funny to pour oil down my throat when I snored, or even hot peppers...This hurt me inside!
 
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wwjd_kilden

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Sounds like innocent, random fun to me.
 
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Sirk

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Personally....I would have gotten out the shaving cream and a feather. Much more entertaining imo.
 
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Tinuviel

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Everyone is a little weird, we are all unique and different from each other, which makes us special individuals.

There's nothing wrong with being amused with your friend's toes, and while it might be different from what some people find amusing, that just means that you are a unique and special person, all your own!
 

Reborn

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So me and my friend are in the 8th grade. We hang out a lot and she likes to put her feet on my lap, I think they're cute cuz she has long toes and always keeps them pedicured.

Anyways so here's what happened, we were hanging out in my room watching a movie and I left for a few minutes to do some stuff.

When I got back she was asleep in a funny way. Like she was asleep on the bed but her feet were sticking out on top of the TV stand (which is next to the bed). And she kicked off her socks in her sleep cuz her socks were on the TV stand too =P

Anyways so I started watching the movie again, but I got distracted cuz her feet were in front of the TV and her toes kept wiggling a lot, so I started playing around with them.

For example I pushed her toes back and forth, and they would start wiggling by themselves =P. Then I would hold them still to make them stop wiggling. Sometimes I did that when a song was playing on TV and her toes would start wiggling to the beat of the song =P. So then I played some songs on my phone and pushed her toes around to make them wiggle to the beat.

I think she was dreaming about dancing the whole time, cuz I kept pushing her toes around =P. Like sometimes her toes would start wiggling to a rhythm by themselves, for like a really long time. But there's no music playing so she must be dreaming about the music =P. And her toes follow voice commands too, like if I whisper "twinkle toes" then her toes would start wiggling. If I say "ballet toes" then her toes would flex and make a point like a ballerina =P

Anyways is it normal that I was amused and liked playing around with her feet? I don't think I'm a weirdo cuz I'm nice, social, and people like me :) Thanks!


Okay, l will be the one to say it.


No, it's not normal.....its a little odd.
 

Reborn

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Nov 16, 2014
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....oh, and l'm odd too.


So, to each their own.
 
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Tintin

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It's a bit weird, but there's nothing wrong with that. None of us are normal anyway. I had a good laugh. Thanks.
 
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Little_Woman

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For me it's a little bit weird...
It can be at long too much sexual!
 

Dan58

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I'd agree that its probably not normal and a little weird.. But as long as it doesn't develop into some kind of perverted foot fetish, I guess its harmless.. I wouldn't recommend playing around with any other body parts on an unconscious person though :)
 
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Ok, so you have a foot fetish. No big deal. Most of us are weird in one way or another.
 
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Hellooo

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What did I just read.
 
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biblicalsandy

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I was called weird by many, and it use to bother me..so I took a test "How weird are you?" Test results were, 32% were more normal than me, and 57% were weirder than me, I was in the 11% between the two..I started laughing, as i seen the insight into this..Of course I am weird, and only 11% would find me normal..same with the other groups, that were weird to me!..lol
 
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JeniBean

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This little piggy went to the market...this little piggy stayed home....this little piggy had roast beef. . this little piggy had none...this little piggy...this one right here went wee wee wee all the way home.

Yeah...so many people like the piggy toes. At least they are pretty piggy toes.
 

Angela53510

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My thought is that you need to just accept that you had some silly fun and leave it at that!

But if it continues to haunt you and cry out for more, I think it would be best to forget it and then not do it anymore. Or you just might become weird! LOL