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Nov 11, 2015
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So one of the girls I work with, her brother-in-law works for pizza plus. We were gonna order a pizza, and have it delivered but they were done closed. About an hour later her brother- in-law comes through were we work, and I start telling him all this and he tells me he can get us a pizza tomorrow because he gets them quite often. So I asked him if he got free stuff; I pretty much already knew he didn't, and he said "no not technically". To me that is stealing because he isn't supposed to do that. Instead of me saying that's OK I don't want the pizza I just responsed oh OK. I was afraid of say that because I figured he would ask why and then I would have had to tell him I think its stealing and wrong. I was afraid of being made fun of. So anyway I know I can fix this because I am gonna tell the girl I work with to just tell him I don't want the pizza. If she asks why I will just tell her. But have I still sinned by not telling him I didn't want it in the first place?
 
Mar 14, 2015
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If he brings it....just pay for it as if you ordered it. Problem solved. What he does at that point is on him. But insist on paying for it. :)


So one of the girls I work with, her brother-in-law works for pizza plus. We were gonna order a pizza, and have it delivered but they were done closed. About an hour later her brother- in-law comes through were we work, and I start telling him all this and he tells me he can get us a pizza tomorrow because he gets them quite often. So I asked him if he got free stuff; I pretty much already knew he didn't, and he said "no not technically". To me that is stealing because he isn't supposed to do that. Instead of me saying that's OK I don't want the pizza I just responsed oh OK. I was afraid of say that because I figured he would ask why and then I would have had to tell him I think its stealing and wrong. I was afraid of being made fun of. So anyway I know I can fix this because I am gonna tell the girl I work with to just tell him I don't want the pizza. If she asks why I will just tell her. But have I still sinned by not telling him I didn't want it in the first place?
 
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LostSoul63

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Having worked in the food services industry for close to 20 years, I can tell it's not stealing because most if not all restaurants offer their employees 1 free meal per shift. Granted you can't get mass quantities (enough food to feed 5-500 ppl) but you can get one meal.

So one of the girls I work with, her brother-in-law works for pizza plus. We were gonna order a pizza, and have it delivered but they were done closed. About an hour later her brother- in-law comes through were we work, and I start telling him all this and he tells me he can get us a pizza tomorrow because he gets them quite often. So I asked him if he got free stuff; I pretty much already knew he didn't, and he said "no not technically". To me that is stealing because he isn't supposed to do that. Instead of me saying that's OK I don't want the pizza I just responded oh OK. I was afraid of say that because I figured he would ask why and then I would have had to tell him I think its stealing and wrong. I was afraid of being made fun of. So anyway I know I can fix this because I am gonna tell the girl I work with to just tell him I don't want the pizza. If she asks why I will just tell her. But have I still sinned by not telling him I didn't want it in the first place?
 
Nov 11, 2015
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I'm not calling you a liar or anything, but I work fast food and we don't get free food. Also, since I did ask him if he got free food and his answer was "no not technically" that's a dead give away he ain't supposed to take it.
 

RickyZ

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Paul healed and delivered so many people, yet he was unable to heal himself of his thorn and thus lived with it for some time. I often wonder if he might have been healed sooner had someone had the ba--s - 'scuse me I mean faith to walk up to him and lay a hand. Employees may get free meals but it's intended for EMPLOYEES. You know what he is doing is stealing, now it's time to man up and in faith tell him so. Who cares if they laugh? Because you know God is smiling. And who do you want to please more?
 

Dan58

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So I asked him if he got free stuff; I pretty much already knew he didn't, and he said "no not technically". To me that is stealing because he isn't supposed to do that.
Your assuming he's stealing, but maybe he's not? He said "no, not technically", which could mean he gets a discount or maybe he's just a nice guy who volunteered to get you a pizza. There might be situations where a customer doesn't pick-up a pizza, or at closing time the pizza bar has left-overs, in which case they let the employees take it instead of wasting the food by throwing it out. I kinda doubt he would risk his job to steal a pizza, its more likely that its 'not technically free', but there are occasions or situations when he can get one? Just tell him to get it, but don't steal it.

My oh my, I wish my problems were as simple as yours :)

 
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Tell him not to get the pizza and that you think it's stealing and he might lose his job of his boss finds out is more loving.

We never got "free meals" and the owners might go out of business if people keep stealing, then he would lose his job and so would everyone else employed there.
 
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Ariel82

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It's not a sin to say ok but would be wrong if now you know it's wrong not to say anything and let folks lose their jobs.
 
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NewWine

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I'm not calling you a liar or anything, but I work fast food and we don't get free food. Also, since I did ask him if he got free food and his answer was "no not technically" that's a dead give away he ain't supposed to take it.

I too have worked in many food service industries over the years, and some offered free food (most actually) while I was on shift, or at least at a greatly discounted price, but some didn't. Your experience may be different from mine in this. Based solely on your words within your original post and this one.....the "no not technically" could mean he is willing to give you his free or discounted pizza for that shift, so that he "looks cool" in front of you as well. You don't know his full meaning, you're only assuming, and while you could be correct, you could also be wrong......

With that in mind, if you're feeling guilty, then talk to him and offer to pay him for the pizza....who knows, he might truly appreciate your integrity there. Only by talking to him will you know his intentions.
Peace!!
 
Mar 23, 2016
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So one of the girls I work with, her brother-in-law works for pizza plus. We were gonna order a pizza, and have it delivered but they were done closed. About an hour later her brother- in-law comes through were we work, and I start telling him all this and he tells me he can get us a pizza tomorrow because he gets them quite often. So I asked him if he got free stuff; I pretty much already knew he didn't, and he said "no not technically". To me that is stealing because he isn't supposed to do that. Instead of me saying that's OK I don't want the pizza I just responsed oh OK. I was afraid of say that because I figured he would ask why and then I would have had to tell him I think its stealing and wrong. I was afraid of being made fun of. So anyway I know I can fix this because I am gonna tell the girl I work with to just tell him I don't want the pizza. If she asks why I will just tell her. But have I still sinned by not telling him I didn't want it in the first place?
All I'm thinking of is pizza now, thanks. But don't worry about that stuff it will resolve itself.
 
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GraceRevelation

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Just tell him you don't want it if your not allowed to have it. Whats the problem lol? It's scary to say you don't want to steal something? that makes you a loser? Goodness....
 
Mar 11, 2016
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Forget about it. Either pay for the pizza or tell him you don't want it. It's the only way you will feel good about it. Call it a temptation and move on.