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Well its a good thing God didnt create everyone the same. There isnt a formula on how people should interrelate with each other. We would all be robots wouldnt we? lol
To each his own. There are many types of personalities in this world. It just takes ONE to find the ONE that each "gets" each other.
To each his own. There are many types of personalities in this world. It just takes ONE to find the ONE that each "gets" each other.
Cat and mouse...haha. I hate love...lol...at least the western permutation of it. God put us in the garden to work. Eve had her job and Adam had his job. They both got their significance from God. I will never ever never ever never, give two seconds to anyone who can't be their own emotional caretaker. Don't have time for it, don't want to deal with it. A person is either content in their own skin, and what goes on around them doesn't tip them over into loony land, or they can just move along. Lol
I didnt tell her to kick him to the curb. Dont put words in my mouth ! It was said more in jest than anything. You need to seriously lighten up. I have posted other input that exemplified how I feel about the situation. A relationship is a beautiful dance where both participate in a fashion that the other feels valued. Period! If one is lazy then the other suffers emotionally for it.
Actually, I did not say you did say that, so who is putting words in whose mouth? On the other hand, it sure looks like you did say it LOL. Either way, lighten up, okay?
I do not see the guy as being emotionally unavailable simply because he does not behave the way she wants him to. She is not even behaving the way she wants herself to. Also, I may not have read the whole thread, so please don't expect me to know everything you have said. Even if I had read the whole thread, it is not like I am memorizing everything any one person said, either. Your expectations seem out of line. This seems to be a theme here. I say that in jest. Get it?
Standing on her own two feet will come into play when she bunt kicks him to the curb for being emotionally unavailable
A relationship(healthy one) is about finding a connection and nurturing that connection on a day to day basis. That never stops! .
A relationship(healthy one) is about finding a connection and nurturing that connection on a day to day basis. That never stops! .
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So are you saying that she should be on the lookout for someone who can meet her needs? And what of her hearts desires? Are they legitimate or are they born out of insecurity? The fact is that there is way too much nuance to be settled by us armchair quarterbacking. The reality is that she will like the rest of us.....learn things the hard way or just do things the hard way and not learn anything at all.
We reply to people according to what they have said. Thats called a reasonable conversation!You didnt read the whole thread. Go back and do that. It appears that you came here to attack me for no reason. I am not here to argue with you or anyone else. I have my views on things and if you dont like it, so be it! I am not going to argue petty crap with you! Got it?