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Hello!
So, this is going to be a long one but I really need some advice on all of it. I have been married to my husband for five years now and he is amazing. Such a wonderful husband and father to our daughter. He has had a relationship with my father for about ten years. My dad is the pastor of the church that we both serve in, we live right across the street from my parents, and my husband works for one of my fathers good friends, and he works with our brother in law. Needless to say there isn't a whole lot of breathing room. But my dad is very controlling. For example my husband is looking for another job and my dad TOLD him he had to tell his boss that he was pursuing other jobs. He also TELLS him to preach. Rarely asks. Whenever my dad has an issue with my husband he texts me to tell my husband. I am just at the end of my rope! I love my family so much but in my soul I do not agree with how he treats us. At one point he told my husband and I that we have a heart issue and that we don't love people. But I know that the Word says no man can judge the heart! He also proceeded to tell my that he knows my husband better than I do and that he has all the issues. How can he say he knows the man I LIVE with and share my life with better than I do!?! I want so badly to say something about all of this, but I believe he would just cut us off from everything or turn it around to being our fault.
The reason I have decided to write this is because I am in desperate need of some encouragement. I can't talk to anyone in my family aside from my husband or anyone in our church. I just don't know what to do anymore. Thank you so much for reading this if you have and any advice or just encouraging words are greatly appreciated.
So, this is going to be a long one but I really need some advice on all of it. I have been married to my husband for five years now and he is amazing. Such a wonderful husband and father to our daughter. He has had a relationship with my father for about ten years. My dad is the pastor of the church that we both serve in, we live right across the street from my parents, and my husband works for one of my fathers good friends, and he works with our brother in law. Needless to say there isn't a whole lot of breathing room. But my dad is very controlling. For example my husband is looking for another job and my dad TOLD him he had to tell his boss that he was pursuing other jobs. He also TELLS him to preach. Rarely asks. Whenever my dad has an issue with my husband he texts me to tell my husband. I am just at the end of my rope! I love my family so much but in my soul I do not agree with how he treats us. At one point he told my husband and I that we have a heart issue and that we don't love people. But I know that the Word says no man can judge the heart! He also proceeded to tell my that he knows my husband better than I do and that he has all the issues. How can he say he knows the man I LIVE with and share my life with better than I do!?! I want so badly to say something about all of this, but I believe he would just cut us off from everything or turn it around to being our fault.
The reason I have decided to write this is because I am in desperate need of some encouragement. I can't talk to anyone in my family aside from my husband or anyone in our church. I just don't know what to do anymore. Thank you so much for reading this if you have and any advice or just encouraging words are greatly appreciated.