5 best reasons I love my spouse

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tjogs

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This section have so many posts where people tell about problems that we need at least one pure positive one.
They say that love is not a feeling and love don't need a reasons but any reason you have will make it easier to love the other.

This morning i was waking up yet another workday but my heart felt warm from the greeting my wife gave me.
good wife is a gift from God but I believe I got a Jackpot because
- Her foundation is Christ
- She's family orientated and like born to be loving mom, supporting wife and caring daughter.
- Her attitude to make me happy even at expense her own comfort.
- Her skill of styles and decoration.
- She's very attractive to my eye even she says she's fat. (nah, she's just pregnant :D )

Anyone of you who are married and are happy of your spouse, what are your top 5 reasons love him/her?
 
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My Husband Dave is,

1. A good Father to our kid's.

2. He works very hard to support us.

3. He is kind and very helpful.

4. He helps with house work.

5. He's funny and handsome.
 
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tourist

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1. She has a deep love in her heart for God.
2. She has a deep love in her heart for me.
3. She accepts me for the person that I am.
4. She believes in me.
5. She is very attractive.
 
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John --
-- Truly believes to the point of acting on that belief that the one thing God is trying to teach him is, "I love you very much." The first time he heard God telling him this he was falling off a 20-foot ladder onto a pile of wooden boxes in a candle factory. (Good time to tell him that, because the things he's gone through since were much more painful -- and that one gave him trick ribs and a trick knee.)

-- Supports me by talking with me about my desires (I've had many ideas on what I should do as a ministry and how to make money over the years), telling me if it's a good idea, (why would you want to pull weeds for other people, since they grow when it's hot out, and you hate hot out?), and then encouraging me even after he's so past hearing about it. (Been "going to write a novel" since 1982. Did finally write it, but now we're on a holdover before seeing if it can be published.)

-- Patience. Enough to have me as a wife. enough to go through all he's gone through and rarely has a meltdown. He's got enough patience that it feels like it oozes on to me.

-- Funny and outgoing. He's the guy with a joke to fit all occasions. Our SIL was having a party with his family and her family. Her family is very serious most of the time, so she told him she needed him to lighten it up. He did. By the end of the party, everyone was in a great mood and liked each other.

-- Brains. He's my dictionary, commentator, encyclopedia, and newscaster. If I have a question when reading or writing something, 99% of the time, all I have to do is, hey-hon him. (I have so missed that, but he's back!)
 
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1. He loves and tries his best to follow God.
2. He has the heart of a servant and ready always to help someone in need without expecting to be paid back.
3. He loves me and our kids without reservation.
4. He works hard to ensure that we are clothed, fed and sheltered. Even when the people at work push all his buttons.
5. He can admit when he is wrong and forgives me when I make mistakes.


Those are the first five that come to mind but there are so many more.

Nice thread idea!
 
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notuptome

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My wife loves the Lord.

My wife loves me.

My wife loves the children.

My wife is faithful and obedient.

I can trust in my wife because she trusts in me.

Pr 18:22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.

For the cause of Christ
Roger
 
santuzza

santuzza

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My hubby...

Loves the Lord.
Is very sensitive.
Is truly generous (both monetarily and with his words, actions and deeds).
Has a terrific sense of humor (even though he sometimes doesn't get my jokes!).
Is an upstanding, moral man of great integrity, duty, honor and valor.
 
notmyown

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he loves God (and God did that)

he loves me, the kids, the grandkids, come what may (see #1)

he has a servant's heart

he's funny, kind, and gorgeous (yes, at 67 he's gorgeous, inside and out)

he stops watching a playoff game to listen to me

he lets me do little things for him and makes a big deal of it

oh! did you say five? :eek:


 
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oldethennew

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I've never known a person who would truly put others first - that would be Jesus and then me and then all others
I've never know a person whose desire to understand her Heavenly Father's mind meant so much to her
I've never know that a woman could and would want to work with and beside the man she loved
with her whole heart
I've never know that a real woman's heart could be so tender and caring and yet so strong
I never knew that a man could love a woman in so many ways.
 
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oldethennew said:
I've never known a person who would truly put others first - that would be Jesus and then me and then all others
I've never know a person whose desire to understand her Heavenly Father's mind meant so much to her
I've never know that a woman could and would want to work with and beside the man she loved
with her whole heart
I've never know that a real woman's heart could be so tender and caring and yet so strong
I never knew that a man could love a woman in so many ways.
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Ummm? If I didn't know you and your wife better, this sounds like you still don't know such a person. lol
 
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DaretobeHis

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My husband is God's perfect gift for me and though our life is not perfect, I love him and I know he loves me.
 
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Cindy12

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I love that after 20 years of a struggling marriage, my husband came to the Lord and was saved and works hard to be a good, Christian man. Before that, things were truly "iffy"!
I love that he has impeccable morals and high standards and has stuck to those no matter what.
I love that he takes care of me and my son in every way possible.
I love that he is handy around the house, with the vehicles and can do pretty much anything we need.
I love that he shares his testimony and story with others, and shares how God changed his life, our marriage and our future together.
 
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laura_charlotte

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oldethennew said:
I've never known a person who would truly put others first - that would be Jesus and then me and then all others
I've never know a person whose desire to understand her Heavenly Father's mind meant so much to her
I've never know that a woman could and would want to work with and beside the man she loved
with her whole heart
I've never know that a real woman's heart could be so tender and caring and yet so strong
I never knew that a man could love a woman in so many ways.
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Perfect!!!
 
KohenMatt

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1. She's given me 5 children.
2. She puts up with my silliness.
3. She has a tender heart.
4. She is a leader.
5. She loves God more than anything else.
 
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RBA238

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tjogs said:
This section have so many posts where people tell about problems that we need at least one pure positive one.
They say that love is not a feeling and love don't need a reasons but any reason you have will make it easier to love the other.

This morning i was waking up yet another workday but my heart felt warm from the greeting my wife gave me.
good wife is a gift from God but I believe I got a Jackpot because
- Her foundation is Christ
- She's family orientated and like born to be loving mom, supporting wife and caring daughter.
- Her attitude to make me happy even at expense her own comfort.
- Her skill of styles and decoration.
- She's very attractive to my eye even she says she's fat. (nah, she's just pregnant :D )

Anyone of you who are married and are happy of your spouse, what are your top 5 reasons love him/her?
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Been married 31 years.
Here is why she is so Special unto me;

(1) She feeds me a great Lunch (If i'm at home, and not working) also a great Dinner and serves me great Fruits and Veggies, chicken etc.

(2) She has a lot of Wisdom about various things Which is a Quicker more efficient way to do it!

3. Loves all All animals

4. Is patient in all things!
There is many more but the ones mentioned are most notable..
 
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