Hello my Christian brothers and sisters. I need help badly. My marriage seems to be failing. I have been married for 15 years. I have two kids. I am white and my wife is Mexican. Lately she has been very distant and told me the other day she is not happy 100%. I tried to talk to her and she tells me she does not want to talk. She made comment to my daughter that sometimes she wished she married a Mexican guy because I don't dance or speak Spanish. I try hard. I work two jobs. I clean house and do laundry. I don't do drugs. Don't smoke. Don't drink. I dedicate my life to my wife and kids. I don't have friends. It feels like my heart is ripped out. I need advice. I need prayer. I am sending her flowers tomorrow but she seems very distant. So much going thru my head.
Ok, you need to know that this is NOT your fault. It's like you say, you dedicate your whole life to your wife and kids, and don't drink or smoke or do anything bad. So why can it be your fault? It isn't your fault at all. You don't do anything wrong, you sound like you treat your wife and your family really good and MUCH better than most people do.
It's her problem. I'd say how dare she treat you that bad when you treat her and your kids so well.
"Thank you. No there is no altercation. She went out with a single friend to a concert and came back with that attitude. I have been praying on it. Should I just let her have space?"
This might explain why she has been acting like this to you... maybe it's more than just a "friend" and that she wants to hook up with him (or her).
I'd advise you to keep praying to God, keep living as you are living now, don't change you sound like a good hardworking man who does the best for your family.
I'd say just wait. Keep praying to God and wait a little before making a decision on what to do. If she continues like this for like 2 or more months, and doesn't tell you a good reason why she acts this way. Then I say dump her, divorce.
You treat her so well, why do you deserve to be treated this way?
