Whatever makes you think if someone is a good christian or a bad one

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lonelyconvert

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In everyday what actions, habits, or behavior of people ever made you form an opinion about someone being a good believer or not. Please share your personal experiences.
 

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In everyday what actions, habits, or behavior of people ever made you form an opinion about someone being a good believer or not. Please share your personal experiences.
Jesus said ""There is none good but one, That is, God"" and i believe Him.. We humans can only be accounted as good by Faith in Jesus.. That being we are deemed righteous in Spirit .. But never in this flesh we down exist in...


So an acceptable Christian to God is one who believes Jesus and trusts 100% in the atonement that the LORD Jesus secured for their salvation..
 
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lonelyconvert

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but sometimes you may have come across people whose actions might have made you think if he rally believes in the Lord.
i dont live in a christian society so i always wonder what the experience would be like. perhaps these thoughts are a result of loneliness.
 

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but sometimes you may have come across people whose actions might have made you think if he rally believes in the Lord.
Yes there are Christians who seem to be failing God more then others.. But in the End God knows who believes Him and who does not.. We can only observe and speculate..

i dont live in a christian society so i always wonder what the experience would be like. perhaps these thoughts are a result of loneliness.
Yes i know how you feel with that loneliness... One thing that isolated Christians in remote non- Christians societies seem to have is an overly idealistic view of how things are like in supposed ""Christian countries"" The sad fact of the matter is most of these supposed ""Christian nations"" are anything but Christian.. I live in a supposed Christian country and i can tell you that i hardly ever meet real Christians in my day to day life..

But i know that the Holy Spirit is with me :D and as long as He is with me i am never Ever alone...
 
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AuntieAnt

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It doesn't matter what our opinions are. God is not a man but Spirit and Truth. If someone is deceptive, if they are purposely mocking God (like a wolf in sheep's clothing), they will expose themselves. "Out of the heart, the mouth speaks." If you listen with spiritual ears, rather than trusting your own understanding, the Lord reveals the truth of a matter.
 
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lonelyconvert

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I should be given an opportunity to explain my viewpoint before you call me a fraud.
 

Jilly81

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Nobody was calling you a fraud. Feel free to explain your viewpoint though, and I would love to hear how you met Jesus!

Welcome to this website :)
 

Dan58

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In everyday what actions, habits, or behavior of people ever made you form an opinion about someone being a good believer or not.
"Ye shall know them by their fruits... every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit" (Matthew 7:15&17)

"Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world." (James 1:27)

"For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in: Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me" (Matthew 25:35&36)

"They profess that they know God; but in works they deny him, being abominable, and disobedient, and unto every good work reprobate" (Titus 1:16)

"Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away" (2 Timothy 3:5)

"For not the hearers of the law are just before God, but the doers of the law shall be justified." (Romans 2:13)
 

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I should be given an opportunity to explain my viewpoint before you call me a fraud.
If you are a genuine seeker of the truth then i encourage you to keep seeking and asking questions in CC no matter how many people in here question your intentions...

I would encourage you also to pick your actual country location..
 
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lonelyconvert

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If you are a genuine seeker of the truth then i encourage you to keep seeking and asking questions in CC no matter how many people in here question your intentions...

I would encourage you also to pick your actual country location..
at present I am a little bit dishearted. But surely will return in couple of days.
 
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Fr8train

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In everyday what actions, habits, or behavior of people ever made you form an opinion about someone being a good believer or not. Please share your personal experiences.
I dont believe that we are to decide that. I think we should focus on how we are treating everyone at the time of meeting. I also believe we were told to treat others as we want to be treated. Also from the bible. We need to spend time focusing on our actions not our beliefs.
 

EarnestQ

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It seems to me that the closer one is in their relationship with Christ, the more they reflect Him to the world around them.

This is not easily faked for any length of time - though it probably is from time to time.


The less a person values what Jesus values, the more their opinions, actions and values tend to reflect the enemy.

The more I get to know Messiah Jesus, the better idea I (believe I) have of His grace, mercy, love, and truth when it is reflected in the lives of others.

Those who don't love Jesus, don't love the things He loves. They will probably argue instead.
 
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adamrobertk

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I try not to judge (though it's easier said than done). You never know what is going on in people's lives. Tough times make people do stupid things. A lot of the time, you won't even know that their reason is the tough time. Personally when i go through the roughest of times and there have been a lot over the last year, I do stupid things. I drink too much, I lash out at people and a lot of other things. It's the heart of the person that makes them bad or good in my eyes. Actions can be justified. I'll never knock someone for doing something stupid.
 

lv2ski

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In everyday what actions, habits, or behavior of people ever made you form an opinion about someone being a good believer or not. Please share your personal experiences.
Jesus defined that for us :

A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”
Joh 13:34*-‬35 NKJV
http://bible.com/114/jhn.13.34-35.NKJV