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Separation does give a distraction, but under the circumstances that she already finds other men more attractive than her own husband I would advise she stay put. it is all to easy to be tempted and turn farther away if she is not still under the direct guidance of the man she chose to marry. maybe a few hours but not a vacation...
"I do not find him attractive at all. I feel like every other man that I see is bettering looking than my husband."
It seems as though you're mind is set on the desires of the flesh. I would recommend praying and reading the word of God. I've been with my husband 23 yrs and I can say from experience, when you stray too far from God, Satan starts tempting you but when you draw close to him, you see things in a different way.
1 John 2:16 (KJV)
16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world
Romans 8:5 (NIV)
5 Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires.
It seems as though you're mind is set on the desires of the flesh. I would recommend praying and reading the word of God. I've been with my husband 23 yrs and I can say from experience, when you stray too far from God, Satan starts tempting you but when you draw close to him, you see things in a different way.
1 John 2:16 (KJV)
16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world
Romans 8:5 (NIV)
5 Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires.
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Ask God to give you eyes to see your "first love" and all those traits you loved in him. You have lost your first love and it is possible to retrieve it!!! God's grace is enough for you as you depend on Him to change YOUR perspective. This verse is worthy of memorizing or posting on your mirror: Eph. 4:31-32 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you along with all malice and be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you". This article will help:Are You Kind to Your Husband? | Focus on the Family
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