Hello my name is Crystal :) Im new here

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CrystalDawn

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I am from Oklahoma, and I'm fixing to go through a divorce. I never thought that would be something that I would say or have to go through. I was with my husband for 8 years and he continually cheated on me and I continually stuck around and tried various things to make our marriage work. I ran out of ideas on how to make it work I tried everything that I could think of and he just wouldn't ever stop. He has finally admitted that he has a sex addiction and has said that he is going to go to counseling for it but we have already done that and he cheated on me all the way through it and I didn't find out about it until months later. I have given him everything that I have and it was never enough to keep him. After going though the past 8 years of feeling like something was wrong with me and dealing with the cheating, lies, and more lies to cover the other lies , I have decided that it is time to let go....

I do okay most days but I have my bad days when I'm angry and sad. I come here because I know that bashing him and the name calling are wrong way to handle it and it doesn't help anyway. I come here because I know that GOD works. I know that God will bring me through this and will take care of me.
 
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Welcome to CC. This forum is only for introducing yourself. Your OP is more appropriate for the Family forum, and I can ask a mod to move it there for you if you wish. :)
 
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The worse thing that a husband can do is to cheat on his wife. A man that loves his wife does not even contemplate cheating on her let alone do it, and in this case, multiple times.

God will indeed take care of you but that does not mean He intends for you to continue you to be subject to this horrible abuse. I would tell your husband to enter a program to address his addiction issues that has destroyed your marriage and that you will be filing for divorce to address in order to move forward with your life. There is no excuse for what your husband has done to you.

Hopefully, you will find support and understanding on this site. Welcome to CC.
 
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CrystalDawn said:
I am from Oklahoma, and I'm fixing to go through a divorce. I never thought that would be something that I would say or have to go through. I was with my husband for 8 years and he continually cheated on me and I continually stuck around and tried various things to make our marriage work. I ran out of ideas on how to make it work I tried everything that I could think of and he just wouldn't ever stop. He has finally admitted that he has a sex addiction and has said that he is going to go to counseling for it but we have already done that and he cheated on me all the way through it and I didn't find out about it until months later. I have given him everything that I have and it was never enough to keep him. After going though the past 8 years of feeling like something was wrong with me and dealing with the cheating, lies, and more lies to cover the other lies , I have decided that it is time to let go....

I do okay most days but I have my bad days when I'm angry and sad. I come here because I know that bashing him and the name calling are wrong way to handle it and it doesn't help anyway. I come here because I know that GOD works. I know that God will bring me through this and will take care of me.
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Welcome aboard CC Cyrstal..

I hope you get through thus emotionally ruff situation and attain peace of mind as soon as possible .. There is a mourning like possess you need to get through for the loss of your relationship with your former partner and it will be hard but it will not be forever.. May you give as much of this situation over to God and may God bless you will a quick and full recovery.. His will be done..
 
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CrystalDawn

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Thank you everyone! And Blue Ladybug if the post needs to be moved by all means have it moved. I was unaware that I posted in the wrong section. Sorry.
 
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CrystalDawn said:
I am from Oklahoma, and I'm fixing to go through a divorce. I never thought that would be something that I would say or have to go through. I was with my husband for 8 years and he continually cheated on me and I continually stuck around and tried various things to make our marriage work. I ran out of ideas on how to make it work I tried everything that I could think of and he just wouldn't ever stop. He has finally admitted that he has a sex addiction and has said that he is going to go to counseling for it but we have already done that and he cheated on me all the way through it and I didn't find out about it until months later. I have given him everything that I have and it was never enough to keep him. After going though the past 8 years of feeling like something was wrong with me and dealing with the cheating, lies, and more lies to cover the other lies , I have decided that it is time to let go....

I do okay most days but I have my bad days when I'm angry and sad. I come here because I know that bashing him and the name calling are wrong way to handle it and it doesn't help anyway. I come here because I know that GOD works. I know that God will bring me through this and will take care of me.
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Hi Crystal!
Welcome to Christianchat, may the Lord grant you strength and wisdom as you embark on a new journey in your life and leave the old path behind.
May God guide you in your future endeavors and bless you with happiness, and a new life full of joy and fulfillment!
May the Lord wipe away your tears and sorrows and give you peace, love and harmony in your new life.
I sincerely pray that all goes well for you and the Lord grant you the desires of your heart. Welcome again!
Blessings,
Tania
 
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CrystalDawn

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Thank You tnwriter! :)
 
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CrystalDawn said:
Thank you everyone! And Blue Ladybug if the post needs to be moved by all means have it moved. I was unaware that I posted in the wrong section. Sorry.
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how could you know? :)

Lady Blue was being helpful, you know, not critical. :)
(just so you know... she knew you'd get more responses here in the family forum)

i'm so sorry for all you're going through. cling to the Lord Jesus, as you're doing.
because you're absolutely right, He's your Refuge in a time of trouble.

and welcome! :)
 
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Tompa

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Welcome Crystal may God help u go through this
 
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Welcome to the forum Crystal, I pray that you have peace and comfort in this trial.
 
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