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Hey I'm new here and looking for advice. I'm 53 and have grown children from a previous marriage. I recently remarried this past February to a wonderful Christian man. My son has been in the Army and recently came home on leave for 10 days. He is a little difficult and has 2 young children age 2 and 4. He is divorced and I just assumed he would stay here with me and he had his kids here to spend time with them. They are well behaved but my son tends to just really make himself st home and come and go as he pleases. My husband feels this is disrespectful to me and has gotten really upset. He has not said anything to my son but to me. He has ignored my son and my grandchildren .. just walking right past them without saying a word for a week now. My son has picked up on not feeling welcome and told me he will be staying at a hotel next time he is here. My son also claims to be atheist so I have been praying for him and trying to show him love. This is so incredibly hard for me. I don't know what to do. I love my husband so. He says I should have ask him if he could stay here. My husband feels I have not stood by him. I am so hard trying to keep peace but feel I can not win either way. I feel this is pushing my son away from me and certainly not helping my marriage. I just don't know what to do.