When I was 15 I had oral sex with a guy. Well I started having symptoms of what I thought was a STD. I became extremely scared and finally told my mom. She told me that it wasn't an STD. I went to the doctor over a rash I developed which was why I finally told my mom in the first place. She use to be a EMT. The doctor didn't see anything about my rash being related to an STD but I or my mom didn't tell her. Well tonight 5 years later my mom was checking her blood sugar and asked if we wanted our checked and she used the same needle on me as she did my sister. She did clean it with alcohol after me. Now I'm terrified I may have given my sister an STD because I've never been officially tested. I felt uneasy but let my mom do it anyway. I'm terrified God is mad at me now for being so irresponsible will he forgive me for this? I am too afraid to tell them now.
I think I messed up really bad
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You've presumably not had any symptoms related to an STD, and it's been 5 years. Your mom wiped the needle. You should get a definitive test just to put all fears aside, but until then I wouldn't be too concerned about your sister. As for God being angry at you? Nah, if He should be mad at anyone it would be your mom. As an EMT she should have known better.
First and foremost you should never use the same needle when testing blood sugars or when using a needele for any reason. I can not bleive someone would be so ignorant as to do this particularly if they test their own blood sugars.
Secondly go and get yourself tested for STDs. Once you have got the result you will know one way or another.
Secondly go and get yourself tested for STDs. Once you have got the result you will know one way or another.
Well it's not God Who is bringing up your past transgressions. God has removed them as far as the east is from west to remember them no more. God is not mad at you because God has forgiven you through the blood of Christ.
It would be a good thing for you to get tested so you can inform others like your sister if there are any problems present.
For the cause of Christ
Roger
It would be a good thing for you to get tested so you can inform others like your sister if there are any problems present.
For the cause of Christ
Roger
chances are you do not have an STD that is good news unless it was more then just oral sex if it was just Oral sex like you said you are fine the chance of getting and STD through oral sex alone is pretty low Secondly if you had an STD and it has been a few years you would know you would have multiple symptoms like fevers more rashes and other not so nice things i will not post here because it is not lady like... I am curious why you feel like you have to give any guy that kind of attention at 15 years old? Maybe you panicking over this fact that you may have an STD when you don't is GOD sway of having you think about what you have done and dangerous random sexual encounters are... Maybe once you except that that kind of behavior is not good and that you should respect your self enough to save yourself for someone you actually love you will stop panicking about having an STD. but yes I hope it was a lesson learned and if you really feel unsure go to a local STD clinic and get tested. They do it in a very private manor and are very respectful and keep your information very private. Some of the clinics may do the testing for free as well.
. As others have said go get tested, it is free and you don't need to tell anyone.The person who was primarily in the wrong is your Mother, by using a needle for more than one person. If you had any infection not just an STD it could have been transfered to your sister. Two the bible tells us the only acceptable realtionship for sex is marriage so you need to confess to God your pre marital sex. Finally not all sexually transmitted diseases do have symptoms. Most women do not have any symptoms with Clamydia but it can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease and infertility. Also 50% women do not have symptoms if they have Gonorrhoea. Also individuals only have symtoms some of the time with syphillis. The only way to be sure about STD is to get tested.
Could be the point of this thread is the question why can a 15 yo go to the Health Department or doctor to be tested for STD but can't obtain condemns or other items to prevent them without the parent's consent. After all an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
When I was 15 I had oral sex with a guy. Well I started having symptoms of what I thought was a STD. I became extremely scared and finally told my mom. She told me that it wasn't an STD. I went to the doctor over a rash I developed which was why I finally told my mom in the first place.
Well tonight 5 years later my mom was checking her blood sugar and asked if we wanted our checked and she used the same needle on me as she did my sister.
Maybe there is more to the story...
When I was 15 I had oral sex with a guy. Well I started having symptoms of what I thought was a STD. I became extremely scared and finally told my mom. She told me that it wasn't an STD. I went to the doctor over a rash I developed which was why I finally told my mom in the first place.
Well tonight 5 years later my mom was checking her blood sugar and asked if we wanted our checked and she used the same needle on me as she did my sister.
Maybe there is more to the story...
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