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    I got a phone call this evening from my doctor and the results came back good. So obviously I was very happy. I told her thank you and then mumbled thank you Lord under my breath. I'm pretty sure the doctor heard me because she began to giggle. In my mind I was thinking she was making fun of me and i think I said "oh no" to her. I really can't remember if I said anything but I was so afraid in my head that she was making fun of that I feel like I denied the Lord because I think I said "Oh no" after hearing her giggle. I was thinking in my mind oh no she heard now she is gonna ridicule. I believe I said " oh no" that out loud so did I deny the Lord to her? Obviously If I did say that out loud she didn't comment so idk what she was thinking when I said that.

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    Just the devil condemning you--- just a mistake--- pray for the doctor to meet the Lord...Grace and Peace...
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    You have a serious problem with overthinking, according to your other posts. If you really want to make your life easier i might suggest getting some professional help to get your thoughts under control. I can have issues with overthinking as well, but not to the degree you do. So i do have an idea how difficult it can be. Learning to get some control over that could help your life become easier. Hopefully you'll consider this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Acr96 View Post
    I got a phone call this evening from my doctor and the results came back good. So obviously I was very happy. I told her thank you and then mumbled thank you Lord under my breath. I'm pretty sure the doctor heard me because she began to giggle. In my mind I was thinking she was making fun of me and i think I said "oh no" to her. I really can't remember if I said anything but I was so afraid in my head that she was making fun of that I feel like I denied the Lord because I think I said "Oh no" after hearing her giggle. I was thinking in my mind oh no she heard now she is gonna ridicule. I believe I said " oh no" that out loud so did I deny the Lord to her? Obviously If I did say that out loud she didn't comment so idk what she was thinking when I said that.
    if it was her giggling it may not have been because of what you said there could have been conversation going on in the back ground. She could have been reading a text message while talking to you there are so many things that could have been going on at that moment. If she was by chance giggling at what you said it is not a big deal. there are so many things so don't sweat it. Just thank God your okay and keep thanking him everyday no matter who has a giggle in the background.
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    I agree with the comment that your "overthinking" it again. Who cares what the doctor thought? I'm guessing that when you said, "Thank you Lord", that the doctor was just sharing in your delight. Don't over-analyze everything you think or say, or you'll drive yourself nuts. Lots of people thank God when hearing good news, its nothing to be apologetic about.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Acr96 View Post
    I got a phone call this evening from my doctor and the results came back good. So obviously I was very happy. I told her thank you and then mumbled thank you Lord under my breath. I'm pretty sure the doctor heard me because she began to giggle. In my mind I was thinking she was making fun of me and i think I said "oh no" to her. I really can't remember if I said anything but I was so afraid in my head that she was making fun of that I feel like I denied the Lord because I think I said "Oh no" after hearing her giggle. I was thinking in my mind oh no she heard now she is gonna ridicule. I believe I said " oh no" that out loud so did I deny the Lord to her? Obviously If I did say that out loud she didn't comment so idk what she was thinking when I said that.
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    So far when people giggled when I said something like that it was because they thought it was cute or awesome... I dont see why you keep letting small things like that throw you off so much.
    Its just again another testimony to the Lord where you thanked him with your heart. Try not to focus so much on what people may think of you sister. God didnt give us a spirit of fear. God bless you
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    Quote Originally Posted by Acr96 View Post
    I got a phone call this evening from my doctor and the results came back good. So obviously I was very happy. I told her thank you and then mumbled thank you Lord under my breath. I'm pretty sure the doctor heard me because she began to giggle. In my mind I was thinking she was making fun of me and i think I said "oh no" to her. I really can't remember if I said anything but I was so afraid in my head that she was making fun of that I feel like I denied the Lord because I think I said "Oh no" after hearing her giggle. I was thinking in my mind oh no she heard now she is gonna ridicule. I believe I said " oh no" that out loud so did I deny the Lord to her? Obviously If I did say that out loud she didn't comment so idk what she was thinking when I said that.
    I think you worry too much. If your doctor heard and giggled, I doubt it was at you or your comment. I might have giggled because it is something I would do and was suprised.

    Also you worry too much God knows you did not mock him by saying "Oh no"
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    No you didn't deny the Lord. But you already know that, so I don't know why you keep asking us questions that you already know the answer to. You need to focus on God more, and stop worrying about what others think of you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ariel82 View Post
    I think you worry too much. If your doctor heard and giggled, I doubt it was at you or your comment. I might have giggled because it is something I would do and was suprised.

    Also you worry too much God knows you did not mock him by saying "Oh no"
    This whole situation is still bothering me. I appreciate yalls comments but the more I have sat and thought about it. I feel like I actually said "no I wasn't thanking him" after she giggle because I'm pretty sure I was thinking in my head oh no she is laughing at me. If I did then I denied God and what should I Do?
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    Stop thinking about it. You overthink things too much. She may not have even been giggling at you.. The ONLY way to deny God, is to deny that He exists. Now get over this and move on, and as others have said, stop overthinking, stop over-analyzing and stop worrying..


    Quote Originally Posted by Acr96 View Post
    This whole situation is still bothering me. I appreciate yalls comments but the more I have sat and thought about it. I feel like I actually said "no I wasn't thanking him" after she giggle because I'm pretty sure I was thinking in my head oh no she is laughing at me. If I did then I denied God and what should I Do?
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    Blue_ladybug is innocent, as we know in scripture " all people who like orange tabbies are innocent."
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    I thought at 91 who gives a crap about what anybody thinks.... then I looked again and saw that was how many posts you've made and not your age.... never mind...

    Maybe you should never mind anyway.. because who cares what you or anyone else thinks.. if you can't be you who can you be?
    Just be you and carry on.....lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Acr96 View Post
    This whole situation is still bothering me. I appreciate yalls comments but the more I have sat and thought about it. I feel like I actually said "no I wasn't thanking him" after she giggle because I'm pretty sure I was thinking in my head oh no she is laughing at me. If I did then I denied God and what should I Do?
    Stop asking for help, then ignoring everything everyone says, and continuing on in the same pattern. Every post of yours is the same. You have received good counsel here, from many sources, and are ignoring it to justify continuing on in your unhealthy pattern. I'm not understanding the point of asking for help if you're just going to ignore it. You have been answered, if you aren't going to take it stop disrespecting the people who took time to care and help, by treating their words as nothing.
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    You have a serious problem with overthinking, according to your other posts. If you really want to make your life easier i might suggest getting some professional help to get your thoughts under control. I can have issues with overthinking as well, but not to the degree you do. So i do have an idea how difficult it can be. Learning to get some control over that could help your life become easier. Hopefully you'll consider this.
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    Stop asking for help, then ignoring everything everyone says, and continuing on in the same pattern. Every post of yours is the same. You have received good counsel here, from many sources, and are ignoring it to justify continuing on in your unhealthy pattern. I'm not understanding the point of asking for help if you're just going to ignore it. You have been answered, if you aren't going to take it stop disrespecting the people who took time to care and help, by treating their words as nothing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Acr96 View Post
    This whole situation is still bothering me. I appreciate yalls comments but the more I have sat and thought about it. I feel like I actually said "no I wasn't thanking him" after she giggle because I'm pretty sure I was thinking in my head oh no she is laughing at me. If I did then I denied God and what should I Do?
    You should obey the Lord.

    Say the Lord's prayer, "forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors". Then you are wiped clean to live your day as best you can. The Lord tells you He forgives you, don't even think once that the Lord doesn't. Accept that.

    Also, let others around you choose their actions without you judging them in any way. What they think and do is the Lord's business, not yours. It is the Lord you go to for your self worth, not other people. You are to let them think of you as they choose, but the Lord created you and has the say about you. God is for you, who can be against you? Rom. 8:31.

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    somebody probably had her on the floor and was tickling her under-arms, or possibly her feet...

    chill, and abide...
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    It depends on what you meant by 'Oh no'. (Why does that remind me of Bill Clinton?)

    If you meant it to deny the Lord in some way, then repent. Peter found forgiveness. If you did not mean that, then why are you asking the question?

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    Congratualtions that you are ok (medically) !
    Congratulation about your happiness !
    Congratulations about automatically thanking god for those results !

    So now, why are you unhappy ?
    You are healthy (thank you lord), you thanked god out load, in full hearing of your doctor.
    So where is your problem ? Go on on prayer and continue to thank god and to feel the
    joy that comes with that.

    You are not responsible for your doctors faith or unfaith, that is between god and her.
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    In my opinion, if you said "oh no" because of embarrassment of being heard, you were fearing other people's thoughts and words of you. Fearing judgement of others. Don't fear because there's nothing man can do to you. Compared to what God can sort out. But also you may have a way of thinking that says there laughing at you whenever you hear laughing. I have had those thoughts, especially when I'm down. Even if they are, toughen your skin and don't fear. Though it's easy to say or type.
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