21-Day Daniel Fast but invited to a Restaurant

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Hi guys, I've been doing the Daniel Fast recently, and have gone through so far a tremendous experience and I'' trying to reach my goal of 21 days and maybe even longer. I'm on day 14 I believe,but who's counting lol. My situation though is today is my sisters birthday and we as a family are going out to Claim Jumpers for dinner. Upon looking st their menu they don't have anything in compliance with the Daniel Fast or anything vegetarian for that matter and I'm unsure what to do.

I'm praying about it, but I feel as if God is being silent on the issue to test me and see what I will do. It is not my desire to break my fast, nor am I starving for choice food... if I had the option to skip the dinner I would but I don't want to do that out of respect so I'm kind of caught in a pickle.

I did read somewhere that denial is a key to discipline and even though the fast isn't primarily about food, I did read that we are to eat what God provides for us. I am still learning how to hear His voice clearly, and I do recognize His sovereign control and power, and how He ordains every situation and circumstance but I also want to make sure I'm not stepping out of His will and trying to misuse the grace given to me. I'm in a weird spot and really unsure of what to do. Like I said I could skip the dinner but out of respect for my sister and family, I wouldn't want to. I can easily hold on to my fast for another 7 days as my faith and trust in Him has grown tremendously during this period.

I think about the story in the Bible where Esau traded away his birthright inheritance for a bowl of soup! That scared me lmao... anyone with some encouraging words and/or advice?
 
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It's simple pack your lunch in a little cooler.
 
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d11king said:
Hi guys, I've been doing the Daniel Fast recently, and have gone through so far a tremendous experience and I'' trying to reach my goal of 21 days and maybe even longer. I'm on day 14 I believe,but who's counting lol. My situation though is today is my sisters birthday and we as a family are going out to Claim Jumpers for dinner. Upon looking st their menu they don't have anything in compliance with the Daniel Fast or anything vegetarian for that matter and I'm unsure what to do.

I'm praying about it, but I feel as if God is being silent on the issue to test me and see what I will do. It is not my desire to break my fast, nor am I starving for choice food... if I had the option to skip the dinner I would but I don't want to do that out of respect so I'm kind of caught in a pickle.

I did read somewhere that denial is a key to discipline and even though the fast isn't primarily about food, I did read that we are to eat what God provides for us. I am still learning how to hear His voice clearly, and I do recognize His sovereign control and power, and how He ordains every situation and circumstance but I also want to make sure I'm not stepping out of His will and trying to misuse the grace given to me. I'm in a weird spot and really unsure of what to do. Like I said I could skip the dinner but out of respect for my sister and family, I wouldn't want to. I can easily hold on to my fast for another 7 days as my faith and trust in Him has grown tremendously during this period.

I think about the story in the Bible where Esau traded away his birthright inheritance for a bowl of soup! That scared me lmao... anyone with some encouraging words and/or advice?
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do they have salads in the menu?

or order a regular meal and pass the part on you do not want to eat to someone else

to be honest, I would take it easy on the 'God testing you' thing...seems this is just one of those things that come up in everyday life that we deal with...no biggie...no birthright

just use common sense...this is not a do or die situation IMO...
 
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d11king said:
I'm praying about it, but I feel as if God is being silent on the issue to test me and see what I will do. It is not my desire to break my fast, nor am I starving for choice food... if I had the option to skip the dinner I would but I don't want to do that out of respect so I'm kind of caught in a pickle.
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Since you are on a fast it might be wise not to talk about pickles.
 
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d11king

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I looked at the menu online and there is absolutely nothing in compliance with the fast. Even the salads and soups.

I'm leaning towards just telling my sister I won't be able to make it. I considered the previous users suggestion of packing the lunch but that would do no justice as I would need it heated.
 
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Honestly? Just eat before you go, and then ask for something to drink, (probably just water, if that's what the fast says.) I have no idea what a Daniel's Fast is or why you're doing this, but my family has trouble dealing with our diet, so we usually eat before we go, and tell the truth. "We're too full to eat more, but thanks."

Don't make it a big deal, and it's not a big deal to others.
 
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I never heard of the Claim Jumper so I went online to check it out. I'd go with the steak & shrimp and the chocolate cake for dessert.
 
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1COR. 9:22.
To the weak became I as weak, that I might gain the weak: I am made all things to all men,
that I might by all means save some.

our Godly convictions always strengthen us and guide us into our future, we are strengthened daily by our beliefs
through our actions...
we must let the Holy Spirit lead us in all of our situations, for we should realize and believe that our actions will
always be for the Glory of Saviour because of our Love for Him and His Holy Sacrifice...
 
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d11king said:
I looked at the menu online and there is absolutely nothing in compliance with the fast. Even the salads and soups.

I'm leaning towards just telling my sister I won't be able to make it. I considered the previous users suggestion of packing the lunch but that would do no justice as I would need it heated.
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hey you know what d11?

most restaurants will be happy to prepare a meal from the menu and leave out whatever it is you don't wish to eat

spaghetti? no prob..tell them just the noodles...if you like garlic, that's good with some butter and garlic

I think you can make a work around...but it's up to you...doesn't have to be a major thing you know...anyway, hope you solve it...
 
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d11king said:
Hi guys, I've been doing the Daniel Fast recently, and have gone through so far a tremendous experience and I'' trying to reach my goal of 21 days and maybe even longer. I'm on day 14 I believe,but who's counting lol. My situation though is today is my sisters birthday and we as a family are going out to Claim Jumpers for dinner. Upon looking st their menu they don't have anything in compliance with the Daniel Fast or anything vegetarian for that matter and I'm unsure what to do.

I'm praying about it, but I feel as if God is being silent on the issue to test me and see what I will do. It is not my desire to break my fast, nor am I starving for choice food... if I had the option to skip the dinner I would but I don't want to do that out of respect so I'm kind of caught in a pickle.

I did read somewhere that denial is a key to discipline and even though the fast isn't primarily about food, I did read that we are to eat what God provides for us. I am still learning how to hear His voice clearly, and I do recognize His sovereign control and power, and how He ordains every situation and circumstance but I also want to make sure I'm not stepping out of His will and trying to misuse the grace given to me. I'm in a weird spot and really unsure of what to do. Like I said I could skip the dinner but out of respect for my sister and family, I wouldn't want to. I can easily hold on to my fast for another 7 days as my faith and trust in Him has grown tremendously during this period.

I think about the story in the Bible where Esau traded away his birthright inheritance for a bowl of soup! That scared me lmao... anyone with some encouraging words and/or advice?
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Hello
I checked out the menu and saw what I believe are a few work arounds . Their veggie wrap minus the cheese or a salad without cheese or meat . Use a vinaigrette dressing . Take a hard look ( think positive) you can make it work and most folks won't even realize your fasting.
Blessings
Bill
 
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You can't avoid society for 21 days.. Maybe God isn't testing you, He's hinting that its time for a good meal. Just go to the dinner and be sociable, you don't need to eat. They may think your a religious nut, but at least you won't be rude....jmo
 
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