We are Christians with an intact and well functioning home. I have a 14 year old daughter who is a solid good person. She has a friend who has established a pattern of sharing with my daughter that she "loves her"
We have surfaced this with the school. It is continual and while most of the interaction is casual and school related, I am convinced that this other 14 year old is getting guidance and coaching on some sort of orientation/indoctrination process
1. Create doubt
2 Pose hypotheticals
3. Reduce aversion and oddity
This process comes from an adult/mentor or at least I feel it must. little things like the use of my daughters middle name. This is a textbook use of implied intimacy.
In any event I don't hate anyone.....I am scared. There is so much pressure in our world to destroy the Christian home, I see this as one of the battlefronts. The vulnerable and "open" years are these 13-16 years. They are a focal point of what I see as a movement that is not kind to my world view. I will not sit around and do nothing.
I am meeting with my minister Sunday before church. At this point it is still SOMEWHAT harmless but if an adult male was doing this we would put him in jail. If there is a specific process being used and being steered by an adult.....why is it any different. It is just a proxy scenario.
This is a classic case of not wanting to be informed about what has happened but rather STEER what WILL happen and avoid said sales process. I trust my daughter....and my wife thinks that freaking out is the worst thing we can do. I feel like action has to be taken. I want to meet with the other parents and show them the text...share that we went to the school 6 mos ago. Share that this is HIGHLY irregular and inform them that this is not in our comfort zone and we want the daughter to cease and desist all interaction with my daughter.
(#21, #22, and #23). But yeah, haven't seen him around for a while. I'm not sure he got the answers he was looking for.