Time to visit the in-laws

  • Christian Chat is a moderated online Christian community allowing Christians around the world to fellowship with each other in real time chat via webcam, voice, and text, with the Christian Chat app. You can also start or participate in a Bible-based discussion here in the Christian Chat Forums, where members can also share with each other their own videos, pictures, or favorite Christian music.

    If you are a Christian and need encouragement and fellowship, we're here for you! If you are not a Christian but interested in knowing more about Jesus our Lord, you're also welcome! Want to know what the Bible says, and how you can apply it to your life? Join us!

    To make new Christian friends now around the world, click here to join Christian Chat.
FranC

FranC

Banned
#41
Apr 30, 2016
5,162
75
0
#41
BillG said:
Ah shucks, thank you mum. Nice to see you too.
You are right, don't know how to work it yet.
Click to expand...
Go all the way up, right here on this page.
Across the top, right, click on Notifications

It'll say
Unread Mail

Just click on it and you'll know the rest...
we could talk there.
 
FranC

FranC

Banned
#42
Apr 30, 2016
5,162
75
0
#42
Hey Bill,
Are you around??

I'm here.

Fran
 
tourist

tourist

Senior Member
#45
Mar 13, 2014
41,329
16,309
113
69
Tennessee
#45
AllenW said:
I suffer from anxiety.
It's very bad at times, but even on good days, I feel the affects of it.
Once a year I am required by marriage to go visit the in-laws.
I use to do this out of love for my wife.
Now I do it as a requirement to keep the peace because no matter what happens, she doesn't understand what I go through.
The in-laws will not come visit us.
We are too far away, yet they are all healthy.
I do not get along with any of them.
I am suppose to go today for 4 days.
I woke up covered with itchy bumps all over my body.
This happens with anxiety attacks.
I feel tense, edgy just talking about it.


Should I say something to my wife?
Click to expand...
I feel your pain brother. During my second marriage I lived with my in-laws for 5 years. Talk about stress and anxiety. My second wife died and I have since remarried. No in-laws. I wouldn't say anything to your wife, only nod your head once in awhile and say your sorry. Oh, don't let her see you smile on the drive home. That's a no no.
 
BillG

BillG

Senior Member
#46
Feb 15, 2017
8,886
4,335
113
#46
FranC said:
OK. So we're both here.
Now if we could only find the big boss.
Click to expand...
He is out wineing and dining the ladies on his plush yacht in the marina at the end of his garden.
 
AllenW

AllenW

Senior Member
#47
Apr 20, 2016
1,450
70
48
#47
tourist said:
I feel your pain brother. During my second marriage I lived with my in-laws for 5 years. Talk about stress and anxiety. My second wife died and I have since remarried. No in-laws. I wouldn't say anything to your wife, only nod your head once in awhile and say your sorry. Oh, don't let her see you smile on the drive home. That's a no no.
Click to expand...
Thank you, I appreciate your concern.
 
AllenW

AllenW

Senior Member
#48
Apr 20, 2016
1,450
70
48
#48
BillG said:
He is out wineing and dining the ladies on his plush yacht in the marina at the end of his garden.
Click to expand...
Hey Billy boy, you talking to that brat chick again?
You gotta watch yourself.
She comes from Galaxy X.
You know what they say about those chicks..
 
BillG

BillG

Senior Member
#49
Feb 15, 2017
8,886
4,335
113
#49
AllenW said:
Hey Billy boy, you talking to that brat chick again?
You gotta watch yourself.
She comes from Galaxy X.
You know what they say about those chicks..
Click to expand...
not sure I do.
Please enlighten me.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.