So I was in an argument with my fiancé for a days over our wedding date. He wanted it one day and I out of spite wanted it another day. However I used the excuse that it wasn't ready(which it is very close) My parents didnt approve( but they are okay with it now) I am gonna miss my mom( which is the truth) So somethings have come up and we did move it. He is okay with it but last night I said a prayer for the inspector with him for the inspector to approve our home and to honesty I didn't mean it. I wanted it not to get approved because I wanted to be right that it may not be ready. Because I had been feeling guilty about moving it out of spite when in fact it could have been ready. Anyway we didn't get approved day and I feel it is all my fault now. I prayed a lie. I don't think God would punish him for my actions but is this my fault? Y'all can be honest. I need to hear the truth.
Lets get this straight, do your really mean out of spite you wanted a different wedding date to your fiance. Spite to me means out of delibrate awkwardness, or just to be difficult or contentious you wanted a different date. If you didn't feel ready to get married as soon as your fiance does then why could you not be open and honest with him and discussed how you felt. So rather than discussing the real reason you made up an excuse, not particularly wise, you need to learn to discuss things with your future husband, particularly if your want your marriage to work.
So from your post you said that your parents are ok with you marrying this guy but initially didn't approve. Do you mean you are going to miss your Mum because when you are married you wont be living with your parents. Or do you fell you wont be able to see her as much. Marriage is a huge change and yes you wont see your Mum as much but she is still your Mum.
Are your sure you want to marry your fiance? Are you just not ready and do you need to postpone the wedding? There is a saying marry in haste repent at leisure.
I think you feel guilty as you got what you wanted in that the house was not ready despite praying that it would be. Maybe you in reality knew or suspected it wouldn't pass and this was at the back of your mind. No God is not punishing your fiance for your actions. Maybe it would be better to have prayed if it is your will then the house is approved.
As I have already said are you sure you are ready to get married? As others have said you have a lot of growing up to do if this marriage is to work.