Husband's Desire

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Deeptikamat

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I am 40 years old married women and have been married for 15 years. I was not a virgin when I married my husband and I told him about me not being a virgin after 3 years of our marriage and that too I told him in anger during one of our fights.
Since than he had told many of my close friend and other men and women about me not being virgin and also makes up stories of how I had been sleeping around.
Each time I had caught him in such chat he will say he won’t do again but will do again. Recently I have caught my husband do cuckold fantasy chat and we had a fight and then he confessed to me that he fantasizes me to have sex with men and want to watch. He loves me but he is unable to over come the desire of thought of me having sex with other men.
He also told me that he has chatted with my own brother and also admitted that he enjoyed chatting with my brother about our sex life and visualized me having sex with my brother.
My brother has shared some of the nude photos of his girl friend with my husband and also talked a lot about his sexual adventures. My brother gave my husband tips on how **** me better and stuff like that. I don’t think many brother will do such talk with their sister’s husband so I believe that my brother also has sexual desire for me.
After his confession he told me no matter who he ****s he will never be happy to do with me and during that time i was so wet and horny I ****ed him in cowgirl position.
I did not had the courage to admit I like his fantasy and am not sure how to admit it or should I do in real. Please advice what should I do?
 
tourist

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You made a mistake in your profile checked the Male box instead of the correct Female box. Your husband sounds like he is sick in the head. Your post is quite graphic of a Christian site. I'm not sure at all what to advise. Welcome to CC.
 
blue_ladybug

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First of all, I'll ask a mod to fix your profile so your nick shows as a female. :)

Second, you need to stop using profanity on here. This IS a Christian site, after all.

Third, welcome to CC. :)
 
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Deeptikamat

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I accidentally selected incorrect gender and now I am unable to change it. Profile setting is not allowing me to edit it.

Sorry if some of my words are in bad taste, I just shared how i felt.
 
tourist

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Deeptikamat said:
I accidentally selected incorrect gender and now I am unable to change it. Profile setting is not allowing me to edit it.

Sorry if some of my words are in bad taste, I just shared how i felt.
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That's alright. Lady Blue will help fix your profile. It's all good. Sorry that your husband is a jerk. Prayer may resolve the problem with your marriage. I have already said a prayer for your situation.
 
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Says you're a man, you claim a woman.
Says you're American but Clearly , by your speech, English is not your first language.
You say when you told him you weren't a virgin when married he spreads these private details to others, yet you don't seem the least bit bothered by this.
You say he spreads lies about you sleeping around, but again don't seem bothered by this.
You speak in needlessly graphic terms.
You say your husband has no sexual interest in you, but also say he wants watch you having sex with others.
So your husband expresses no sexual desire for you, wants to watch you having sex with others, lies about you, shares personal information about you, sneaks behind your back going on porn/fantasy oriented sites, speaks frequently and in detail about sex with you to your own brother and say despite all this horrible treatment you get turned on and have sex with him. The same man that doesn't want to have sex with you, but did.

I'm smelling a troll. Story doesn't add up and being too graphic. Not buying it.
 
PrynceNY

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No offense but it sounds like your husband has a perverted mind. I have to ask are you a christian? He wanting you to have sexual relations with other men is wrong & is a sin. I'm concerned for you because he may get you in trouble with the Lord because of his twisted desires.
 
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kaylagrl

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Ugly said:
Says you're a man, you claim a woman.
Says you're American but Clearly , by your speech, English is not your first language.
You say when you told him you weren't a virgin when married he spreads these private details to others, yet you don't seem the least bit bothered by this.
You say he spreads lies about you sleeping around, but again don't seem bothered by this.
You speak in needlessly graphic terms.
You say your husband has no sexual interest in you, but also say he wants watch you having sex with others.
So your husband expresses no sexual desire for you, wants to watch you having sex with others, lies about you, shares personal information about you, sneaks behind your back going on porn/fantasy oriented sites, speaks frequently and in detail about sex with you to your own brother and say despite all this horrible treatment you get turned on and have sex with him. The same man that doesn't want to have sex with you, but did.

I'm smelling a troll. Story doesn't add up and being too graphic. Not buying it.
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Agreeing with you.I see a ban coming.
 
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kaylagrl

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Deeptikamat said:
I accidentally selected incorrect gender and now I am unable to change it. Profile setting is not allowing me to edit it.

Sorry if some of my words are in bad taste, I just shared how i felt.
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You didn't read the rules of the forum about what was allowed?
 
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Deeptikamat

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Right now I feel like a idiot by posting here :(
 
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kaylagrl

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Deeptikamat said:
Right now I feel like a idiot by posting here :(
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Its not a matter of being an idiot.This is a Christian forum and like all forums it has rules. If you had read the rules you wouldn't have made the mistake.
 
PrynceNY

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kaylagrl said:
Agreeing with you.I see a ban coming.
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People should not be so quick with the ban hammer until it's known for certain. If you turn away someone who may be genuinely seeking help the Lord sees that
 
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Deeptikamat

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Sorry friends I made you one feel bad. I will leave the forum myself. have a nice day all!
 
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kaylagrl

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PrynceNY said:
People should not be so quick with the ban hammer until it's known for certain. If you turn away someone who may be genuinely seeking help the Lord sees that
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If you can show me in that post where the OP was seeking answers I'd more than oblige. What women would stay with a man that wants her to have sex with other men,talks to her brother about their intimate life and says dirty things behind her back about their intimate life? She said "please advise",now seriously.
 
PrynceNY

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kaylagrl said:
If you can show me in that post where the OP was seeking answers I'd more than oblige. What women would stay with a man that wants her to have sex with other men,talks to her brother about their intimate life and says dirty things behind her back about their intimate life? She said "please advise",now seriously.
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People go through all kinds of different issues in their lives. Just because it's something you're not familiar with doesn't mean it's automatically not true
 
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kaylagrl

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PrynceNY said:
People go through all kinds of different issues in their lives. Just because it's something you're not familiar with doesn't mean it's automatically not true
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Ok well you can give whatever response you wish. The OPs profile says they are a Christian.I find it very hard to believe they don't know what to do in this situation. The vulgar post sure doesn't sound like a Christian.We'll see what happens in the end.
 
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Deeptikamat said:
I am 40 years old married women and have been married for 15 years. I was not a virgin when I married my husband and I told him about me not being a virgin after 3 years of our marriage and that too I told him in anger during one of our fights.
Since than he had told many of my close friend and other men and women about me not being virgin and also makes up stories of how I had been sleeping around.
Each time I had caught him in such chat he will say he won’t do again but will do again. Recently I have caught my husband do cuckold fantasy chat and we had a fight and then he confessed to me that he fantasizes me to have sex with men and want to watch. He loves me but he is unable to over come the desire of thought of me having sex with other men.
He also told me that he has chatted with my own brother and also admitted that he enjoyed chatting with my brother about our sex life and visualized me having sex with my brother.
My brother has shared some of the nude photos of his girl friend with my husband and also talked a lot about his sexual adventures. My brother gave my husband tips on how **** me better and stuff like that. I don’t think many brother will do such talk with their sister’s husband so I believe that my brother also has sexual desire for me.
After his confession he told me no matter who he ****s he will never be happy to do with me and during that time i was so wet and horny I ****ed him in cowgirl position.
I did not had the courage to admit I like his fantasy and am not sure how to admit it or should I do in real. Please advice what should I do?
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**** having other people in your sexual relations is wrong----have sex with your husband as it pleases him but not with fantasies of other men and women----- talking with people about you and your sex life us wrong---- exchanging nude photos is wrong--- (praying)...
 
Oncefallen

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The OP (now that the profile gender issue is fixed) is welcome to re-post this in the Ladies Forum. I just don't see it as being a good topic for mixed discussion.
 
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