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kim12345

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Hi just need a friend. I am depressed over many things
I am lonely and still dont have a BFF at my old age
I try to be nice but there are no women that want to connect with me...I have tried
 
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Hello Kim, i'm sorry to hear you are going through those emotions as of late. Though I'm not around your age If you need someone to talk to i'm here as a friend
 

kim12345

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what do 28 years old like to talk about
 
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what do 28 years old like to talk about
For me personally I talk about anything. whether it be trends, news , world events, bible scripture & life in general
 

notmyown

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For me personally I talk about anything. whether it be trends, news , world events, bible scripture & life in general
i had to chuckle a little about this because if you're anything like my 28 yo son, some of those words don't mean the same thing to the elderly as they do to you. ;) :p

but like my son, you're a kind young man. :)
 

notmyown

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kim, hello :)

what's up? i'm sorry to hear no BFF.... do you have siblings or a church family?
 

kim12345

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I was in a bible group but it broke up
 

notmyown

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I was in a bible group but it broke up
that's too bad. what about a church?

we're here for you, but it's not quite the same as people in person, is it. :)
 
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I was in a bible group but it broke up
Same here, so I made my own. We just had a meeting earlier today actually. There are five people (including me), none of whom I would consider my bestest friends (yes, I just said "bestest"), and two I didn't even know before today. Other than that, I study the Bible weekly with another friend one-on-one. I set that up too. Take initiative and start a Bible group, or just start by studying one-on-one with someone who's willing. Maybe you'll make a friend in the process :)

P.S. I'll just add that I'm not the most outgoing person in the world and I could do this, so maybe knowing that gives you some hope :eek:
 
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notmyown

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Same here, so I made my own. We just had a meeting earlier today actually. There are five people (including me), none of whom I would consider my bestest friends (yes, I just said "bestest"), and two I didn't even know before today. Other than that, I study the Bible weekly with another friend one-on-one. I set that up too. Take initiative and start a Bible group, or just start by studying one-on-one with someone who's willing. Maybe you'll make a friend in the process :)

P.S. I'll just add that I'm not the most outgoing person in the world and I could do this, so maybe knowing that gives you some hope :eek:


maybe not the most outgoing, but certainly one of the most adorable! ♥
 
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Hi just need a friend. I am depressed over many things
I am lonely and still dont have a BFF at my old age
I try to be nice but there are no women that want to connect with me...I have tried
I don't know that a BFF is necessary. The Lord is always our best friend. He's fun to talk to.
 

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Hi just need a friend. I am depressed over many things
I am lonely and still dont have a BFF at my old age
I try to be nice but there are no women that want to connect with me...I have tried
****Hi from Texas---I'm not a woman---but I used to have long hair...
 

tourist

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I'm very sorry to hear that Kim. I suffer from depression too at times. Loneliness is a hard thing to deal with. I have said a prayer for God to alleviate your loneliness.
 
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sojames

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Honey , I was going through this a few years back, it is the trick of the enemy , find something to do to contriibute to someone else life encourage them, I pray for this spirit of loniliess to be broken off you and a peace wash over you in the name of Jesus.
 
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sojames

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I pray depression and oppresion to be broken off her life in the name of Jesus
 
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sojames

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how old are u we can be friends just as long as we keep it real and no backstabbing
 
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sojames

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where do you live in two weeks I am going to start my facebook page and we can try it I am from Georgia
 

kim12345

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Thank you I will try setting something up.
I was thinking of starting a camping group but Im afraid weird people will come and plus my husband says he is too busy to organize it.

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Same here, so I made my own. We just had a meeting earlier today actually. There are five people (including me), none of whom I would consider my bestest friends (yes, I just said "bestest"), and two I didn't even know before today. Other than that, I study the Bible weekly with another friend one-on-one. I set that up too. Take initiative and start a Bible group, or just start by studying one-on-one with someone who's willing. Maybe you'll make a friend in the process :)

P.S. I'll just add that I'm not the most outgoing person in the world and I could do this, so maybe knowing that gives you some hope :eek: