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    Default Re: Boyfriend leaving me because of my daughter

    Quote Originally Posted by blue_ladybug View Post
    WOW, you've really found yourself in a pickle, haven't you? The guy obviously doesn't love you, or your daughter. And why on earth have you allowed his daughter to kick and pinch your baby? She (his daughter) would get a swift kick in the ascot if she laid a hand on MY baby, along with a hard slap on her face. I would DEMAND that she leave and not come back. :/ Sounds like this guy is whipped by his daughter and lets her run wild.

    You and your kids deserve better than a guy like this. Take them and go to a women's shelter. God wants you out of this relationship because it is unhealthy for all involved. Not to mention the living together before marriage and premarital sex part of it. :/ And speaking of that, for the love of God, DON'T marry this turkey!! Get out now before it gets worse.
    BLb, your actually correct this time when you say get out of the relationship...
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    Default Re: Boyfriend leaving me because of my daughter

    It is not judging to point out the obvious. You are living in sin, to a man you are not married to. Technically, he has obligations to support your son, as he is his son, too! But really, no obligations to you or your daughter.

    You placed a lot of faith in "signs" that God was fixing the relationship, even thought it was going south all the time. Those were not signs, they were a man who wasn't willing to give up the comforts you gave him. Now, he is done, for whatever reason, time to get a real life.

    Don't get involved with and have children with men you are not married to. The world says differently, I know! Maybe you didn't even realize it was against God's plan and purpose that a man and woman should be married, before they sleep together. Now you are forewarned, so do not continue to sin.

    Tell this man it is over. Tell him you want support for your son, and you will take him to court if necessary. You might also tell him, if he gets saved, you will work on your relationship, but from separate homes. See if he changes. If he is truly saved, God will change him. If his using and abusing continue, that means he is not saved.

    The Bible tells us not to be unequally yoked. That means, you should not marry this man, nor any other, if they are not born again Christians. I am not talking baptized as a baby! I am talking fully committed to God - regardless of the church or religious background.

    As for you, I hope you will realize we care, and we know that what God says in the Bible works! You have made some bad mistakes, but God will forgive you, if you confess and tell him how you have gone astray. And he loves you, and will help you through this difficult time.
    "And He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me." 2 Cor. 12:9 NASB

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