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jenniferand2

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I had my home interview today for the apartment.. It went well after giving them all my info except for the last time i peed lol it sounds like if my doctors says my dogs are for emotional support I will get the place. However My hubby still not has found a place so now I am getting a bit worried. I have been praying over the situation everyday. I hoe that God really comes through for me. I hope my doctor fills the paper out for my Dogs as well. I will not go into the apartment if I can not bring my Dogs with me.. I have had them for over 5 years and they are like my children.. I will call my doctor and leave her a message to make sure she puts on there that they are for emotional support for my ptsd and etc..

Please pray that God will make this work out for me if it is what is meant to be... thank you I am getting nervous and anxious all at the same time along with worried and stressed out..
 
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I had my home interview today for the apartment.. It went well after giving them all my info except for the last time i peed lol it sounds like if my doctors says my dogs are for emotional support I will get the place. However My hubby still not has found a place so now I am getting a bit worried. I have been praying over the situation everyday. I hoe that God really comes through for me. I hope my doctor fills the paper out for my Dogs as well. I will not go into the apartment if I can not bring my Dogs with me.. I have had them for over 5 years and they are like my children.. I will call my doctor and leave her a message to make sure she puts on there that they are for emotional support for my ptsd and etc..

Please pray that God will make this work out for me if it is what is meant to be... thank you I am getting nervous and anxious all at the same time along with worried and stressed out..
So hubby knows your leaving? This is new.

I'm more concerned with how are you leaving. A bad neck will make the actual move somewhere between painful and impossible, unless you have friends willing to put in all the effort.
 
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BTW, get your needed sleep? I had insomnia the day before you. I forgot how much I hate insomnia. But, man! When I sleep? It's a beautiful thing. :)
 

jenniferand2

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So hubby knows your leaving? This is new.

I'm more concerned with how are you leaving. A bad neck will make the actual move somewhere between painful and impossible, unless you have friends willing to put in all the effort.
yes I have a few friends and my daughter will help me move..
 

jenniferand2

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So hubby knows your leaving? This is new.

I'm more concerned with how are you leaving. A bad neck will make the actual move somewhere between painful and impossible, unless you have friends willing to put in all the effort.
yes hubby knows I am leaving.. we are going our own ways because we lost half of our health insurance. we make to much money.. so in order to kill two birds with one stone I told him the only way we could get the other coverage back is if we lived in our own places. So he agreed because we do not have the money to pay for the costs that are not covered.. That way I can get away from him and move on and he can feel like it is the health insurance problem that is at fault.. have that be the main cause for a while and go for a year or so then maybe have a sit down and say we should separate all together..
 
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Will that work? Because even if hubby could talk me out of living together to save health insurance, all that means to me is have two places to live and we're living together in one of those places? And, since it's so expensive to live in two separate places to begin with, it would be cheaper to pay more for better healthcare.
 

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I am not sure what IS going to happen 100 percent yet.. I have to see first of all if I get the doctors to fill out the papers for me to get the place .. It is income and elderly disabled housing So i have to have the correct papers in to be approved... They go by my income for rent it is 30 percent of what I make they will charge for rent.. Hubby is wanting to move to another state with a friend of his so yes I do not think it will be us living together secretly kind of thing.
Hubby is aware that I am ready to have a massive breakdown if something does not change because I warned him.. He knows I am not happy right now and that I would like to take time to find myself again.. So after talking for the last few months he know the place I am in right now.. I do not hate the man part of me still loves him.. But a HUge part of me can not forget all that has been done to me over the years and I Struggle with even showing him respect sometimes because I am so mad and hurt. Also because he refuses to change his narrow minded self-centered bitter attitude and I told him I can not handle that anymore either..
For now it is one step at a time see if I get the place for sure or not. Then go from there. If i do then he will find a place with his buddy in PA.. either way He wants to move to PA and I do not really want to...
I told him I would help him with anything he needed help with as I do not hate him.. I just do not want to live with him anymore so he knows this yes.. If i cannot get the go by your income apartment I may not have a choice but to stay with him for a while longer until I can get a place I can afford.. I am praying that everything goes the way it is supposed to go.. If i am finally meant to get some me time and be alone then it will happen. If it is not that time yet then God has a reason I will wait and carry on.. that is all I can do Is pray and do what I can do..
 
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Wait! He's moving to PA? Please tell me the other side of the state. (Pittsburgh, not Philly.) Because, you know, 1.2 million people in this city, so I'm sure I'd see him all the time. lol

(Just joking with you.)
 
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I would definitely seek Jesus' guiding Hand and His approval,
in all that lies ahead, else the wiley-one will try and steal your
Faith and try and lesson the worthiness of your walk with Christ...

our Godly commitments are always tested at different times in our lives,
else how would we ever 'know' if we were for 'real or have really 'grown or not', -
if we have kept our Covenant with Christ, or otherwise?
 
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Remember what Jesus tells us: "Don't be afraid, just believe".

These are the Bible verses that helped me through my times of worrying:
Mark 5:36
Psalms 37:5; 46:1-11; 55:22
Proverbs 3:5-6
Matthew 6:25-34
Philippians 4:6-7
1 Peter 5:7

Hehe. God bless you and your family (and your dogs!) :)