Overcoming addiction

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I am 19 years old and for the past few months i fell into a bad habit and got addicted to porn and i had gotten better but i slipped again i need help and prayer
 
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NoNameMcgee

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I am 19 years old and for the past few months i fell into a bad habit and got addicted to porn and i had gotten better but i slipped again i need help and prayer
im so sorry

:(

ill pray for you

i battled with this one for awhile myself

im sure i was involved with it even longer than you

just know

you can be delivered from it

just have to pray right when the temptation strikes

hold your thoughts captive

right when youre starting to let you mind go to the wicked thoughts

cry to Jesus to give you the holy spirit and turn from it

think of Jesus dying for you

think of hell fire for the wicked

wether its love or fear that helps you

its good youre wise enough to know this is wrong

it shows God gave you a new heart

youre much further than i was at 19 God bless you



maybe if you have time post a testimony so we can get to know you

mine is up there posted recently
 
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SweetmorningDew78

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Hello! Sis welcome to CC :) glad to meet you here.

It's not an easy way out to some...what I can say regarding this habit is...stay away from anything (movies,magazines,music,people)

1 Corinthians 6:18-19 Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body,but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit that is in you, whom you have from GOD and you are not your own.
Confess to Jesus and pray hard and when temptations are there Call upon the name of the Lord Jesus Christ pray for an escape!

I will pray for you my sister :) JESUS delivered me from it I believe HE will deliver you also! God bless you!
 
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My question is this when i am having a hard time and really want to give into my addiction what do i do?
 
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NoNameMcgee

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My question is this when i am having a hard time and really want to give into my addiction what do i do?
you stop letting your mind think of sexual things


you pray to God
if you have to pray till you fall asleep then thats how long you do it

its also like EVERY addiction


its hardest at first

and the longer you go without

the easier it gets
 
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NoNameMcgee

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1 Corinthians 7:9

“But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.”




maybe youre a bit young now...

but maybe you need a husband

God loving husband who Follows Jesus and ACTUALLY reads his bible

someone whos overcome this
 
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Praying is a thing I struggle with I can't stay focused I have been much more in depth in reading my Bible every day which has helped but prayer not as much
 
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NoNameMcgee

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Praying is a thing I struggle with I can't stay focused I have been much more in depth in reading my Bible every day which has helped but prayer not as much
well please dont feel like im being harsh here


but when you choose to give into temptation you have the power not to

its not like an accidental fall

its a series of events


what happens first

is temptation in the form of memories AND imaginations attack you

at this point you have a choice
to hold the memories and imaginations captive

this is the first battle and if you dont go further then you stopped the temptation before you sinned

buuut
if it goes further

now you have fantasy
day dreams
lust
at this point you desire to do something about your feelings

seek a partner for fornication
watch porn
or masterbate

now you have a choice to repent of your sins that you just made in your heart but not in body

you havent yet put the evil in front of your eyes
if it makes it this far... its really tough not to go further
because you just hardened yourself to the spirit by not holding your thought captive

but at this point be drastic

turn your computer off

turn your phone off

go for a walk

if you cant focus on a prayer
then just apoligies
focus on what you have done wrong that day
ask for forgiveness and deliverance

over and over until you know you wont go further


now....

if you didnt stop there

and let yourself go all the way

and feel a contrite heart

that means the holy spirit wants you to repent...
and turn from what you did

and God is still willing to forgive you in Jesus name


but there are those who become reprobate....
there are those who no longer have that heart
that wants to seek God
 
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Does God ever stop forgiving? I want to serve the Lord and I don't want to go to hell and I want to overcome this and I am really scared that God hasn't forgiven me
 
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NoNameMcgee

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Does God ever stop forgiving? I want to serve the Lord and I don't want to go to hell and I want to overcome this and I am really scared that God hasn't forgiven me
well yes
and no

its YOUR heart that gets hardened


theres a point

where you will want your sin more than want God

but God would still forgive you...


here let me find scripture i dont want to give false information
 
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NoNameMcgee

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John 12:48 - He that rejecteth me, and receiveth not my words, hath one that judgeth him: the word that I have spoken, the same shall judge him in the last day.

Proverbs Chapter 28


13 He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh [them] shall have mercy.
14 Happy [is] the man that feareth alway: but he that hardeneth his heart shall fall into mischief.


Ephesians 4:18 - Having the understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God through the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart:


Romans 1:27-29

27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.

28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;

29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
 
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NoNameMcgee

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the themes here


are the same with the pharoh

where because he rejected God

his heart got hardened

then it was easier to him to reject harsher warnings
 
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NoNameMcgee

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you need to DENY yourself

through the power of the Holy spirit

then your heart will soften

its your flesh that wants that pleasure


but your spirit will take pleasure in winning over sin through Jesus
 
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I haven't rejected God that is why I am seeking help I have confessed my sin to God and on here publicly I want to serve Him and right now I am scared if I die I will go to hell
 
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NoNameMcgee

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I haven't rejected God that is why I am seeking help I have confessed my sin to God and on here publicly I want to serve Him and right now I am scared if I die I will go to hell
well

....

repent tonight

pray keep him with you


i cant say who will go where


but God is forgiving

and your heart is showin you want God to save you from this mess

i dont think for a second youre reprobate


to be honest...


for being 19 youre so much further than i was


im just trying to help


but
...

lol

im not much of a teacher yet
 
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I have repented and begged God for His forgiveness and mercy I know His grace goes beyond measure and His Mercy's are new every morning I just hope it applies to me
 
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NoNameMcgee

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sometimes i feel the same way ... assurance is a gift

a gift that comes the more the holy spirit provides good works in you...

which isnt YOU earning anything

its God working in you



all i can say

is your mourning contrite heart

is a major flag

you have Hope

and desire God

but that can turn to Joy

when you actually follow Jesus
 
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NoNameMcgee

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I have repented and begged God for His forgiveness and mercy I know His grace goes beyond measure and His Mercy's are new every morning I just hope it applies to me
this is all we can do

its him working in us that breaks the sin from us


we need to pray and beg and ask for the holy spirit


and when we SEE the sins fall away from us

when we see joy from rejecting sin

we KNOW the holy spirit did it

and we are following Jesus