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**I am just looking for some advice and possibly guidance because right now I really don't know what to do.**
Im not sure how I should begin or what I should say...I am honestly knew to the whole christian life...I've gone to different churches and have prayed in the past however, I was never committed to doing this on a day to day basis. In a sense, I blame my childhood because I've gone through so much as a child, and prayed so much during that time, I felt like God was never there to help me...I am trying to see things in another light right now as I am going through a really hard time with my childrens father.
I am currently pregnant...due any day, and I have a 2 year old son. Me and my son's father have been together for about 5 years and although we've spoken of marriage, we had so many hard times, that it was something that was never pushed. Recently, we had a really bad falling out (I was five months pregnant) and he broke up with me. Now in the past when he's moved out, I prayed and prayed, and he'd come back, and the situations just kept getting worse...This time he says that once he gets his self together he is moving out. He stayed in the house, and I kept praying that things would get better, and when I assumed that the situation did get better, I continued to pray and thanked God for helping me get through what ever it was that him and I were going through.
Recently, we had another falling out because he sent me a message still saying how he was leaving. When I tried to talk to him about it he went off and screamed at me for no reason...This is something that he has been doiing and has been getting worse for some time now. I no longer pray for my relationship to work, nor do I continue to pray to keep my family together. I just pray that God makes me a stronger person to have the strength to move on.
I know that I have not been the best person in my life...and I have sinned a lot...I have gotten saved also...and I try to do things the way I thought was best...again like I said, I am new to the whole christian thing and I am trying to find my way but it seems like I am not doing it right. For one...I know I should not have children out of wedlock, but it is something that has already happened and there isnt anything that I can do about it...But going forward what do I do? Do I give up on trying to keep my family together? Although we arent married, he is the father of both of my children...I don't know what to do any more.
Im not sure how I should begin or what I should say...I am honestly knew to the whole christian life...I've gone to different churches and have prayed in the past however, I was never committed to doing this on a day to day basis. In a sense, I blame my childhood because I've gone through so much as a child, and prayed so much during that time, I felt like God was never there to help me...I am trying to see things in another light right now as I am going through a really hard time with my childrens father.
I am currently pregnant...due any day, and I have a 2 year old son. Me and my son's father have been together for about 5 years and although we've spoken of marriage, we had so many hard times, that it was something that was never pushed. Recently, we had a really bad falling out (I was five months pregnant) and he broke up with me. Now in the past when he's moved out, I prayed and prayed, and he'd come back, and the situations just kept getting worse...This time he says that once he gets his self together he is moving out. He stayed in the house, and I kept praying that things would get better, and when I assumed that the situation did get better, I continued to pray and thanked God for helping me get through what ever it was that him and I were going through.
Recently, we had another falling out because he sent me a message still saying how he was leaving. When I tried to talk to him about it he went off and screamed at me for no reason...This is something that he has been doiing and has been getting worse for some time now. I no longer pray for my relationship to work, nor do I continue to pray to keep my family together. I just pray that God makes me a stronger person to have the strength to move on.
I know that I have not been the best person in my life...and I have sinned a lot...I have gotten saved also...and I try to do things the way I thought was best...again like I said, I am new to the whole christian thing and I am trying to find my way but it seems like I am not doing it right. For one...I know I should not have children out of wedlock, but it is something that has already happened and there isnt anything that I can do about it...But going forward what do I do? Do I give up on trying to keep my family together? Although we arent married, he is the father of both of my children...I don't know what to do any more.