How do you respond to favoritism in the family? I know that I'm an adult it shouldn't bother me but something deep inside it hurts. I only mention it here never would they(my parents) understand.My sister of course takes pleasure of seeing me struggling I was involved in a head on car collision my car was completely totaled. My dad felt sorry for my and offered to help me lent me his car in the meanwhile to go to work and move around.My apartment is a couple of houses from my younger sister she lives with my older divorced sister,so she knew I had a car accident. I went to my older sister for help.my little sister looked at me laughed and try older sister not to bother with me.My older sister said nothing and proceed to help me.
I had to get help so I could move around go to work. In the meanwhile while I got a new car I had no car my dad offered to get me to work,but I got fired . I got another job week later.my dad then.. decided to lent my his car.i used it solely for transportation to get to work...my younger sister rarely comes to my parents and come over when my mom and I were outside her house gardening she drove by and saw us . she stopped I quickly ran inside the house I avoid her she is so intimating.My parents don't see how judged and rejected looked down upon by her I feel by her. I just remember growing up my parents always taking my siblings side... my parents deeming the bad seed telling them I was the jealous envious crazy one....
My instinct tells me my little sister only stopped by to get some sick validation.She wanted to be seen as the GOOD hero child.she lent my dad her car cause she had seen me driving again but with my dad's car.... my dad barely uses his car.. I needed car more thus he lent it to me....so why the heck does she suddenly want to come in to the picture???? seems rather shady egotistical of her ..my instinct tell me her motives aren't pure...help really??? my dad barely uses his car .
I had to get help so I could move around go to work. In the meanwhile while I got a new car I had no car my dad offered to get me to work,but I got fired . I got another job week later.my dad then.. decided to lent my his car.i used it solely for transportation to get to work...my younger sister rarely comes to my parents and come over when my mom and I were outside her house gardening she drove by and saw us . she stopped I quickly ran inside the house I avoid her she is so intimating.My parents don't see how judged and rejected looked down upon by her I feel by her. I just remember growing up my parents always taking my siblings side... my parents deeming the bad seed telling them I was the jealous envious crazy one....
My instinct tells me my little sister only stopped by to get some sick validation.She wanted to be seen as the GOOD hero child.she lent my dad her car cause she had seen me driving again but with my dad's car.... my dad barely uses his car.. I needed car more thus he lent it to me....so why the heck does she suddenly want to come in to the picture???? seems rather shady egotistical of her ..my instinct tell me her motives aren't pure...help really??? my dad barely uses his car .