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lightangel

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Hi i am a Christian male living in a lonely world with no family or friends. My wish is for prayers to meet a loving woman who will be special in here qualities because she would have been sent from God and His plan for us.
I am 48 from London and still look much younger but that fear still sits in my mind what about If i never meet anyone; and the question "how will i meet them" i cannot see anything happening and been on my own for nearly 3years.
Please pray that i to deserve happiness and allow me also to make someone else happy in their life so we both can breath fresh air again.
I am a simple person just after a simple life wanting nothing more than wanting to be with someone and God in our lives.
 
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I have an understanding about loneliness so I can relate to what you have said. There is nothing wrong about wanting a loving and faithful woman to share your life with. I have said a prayer for God to search and find a woman of your heart's desire. I met my wife on this site shortly after I joined so you just never know who God is going to send your way. You are right in saying that this special woman will indeed be sent by God. I read in the bible somewhere that God said it is not good to be alone. He has an understanding about loneliness also.
 
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lightangel

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I thank your dearly for your prayers and after hearing that you met your partner on this site it has given me a little hope that my message may touch someone's heart "in His name i ask"
God bless!
 
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lightangel said:
I thank your dearly for your prayers and after hearing that you met your partner on this site it has given me a little hope that my message may touch someone's heart "in His name i ask"
God bless!
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The more posts that you write telling about who you are and what you are about and how you conduct yourself and interact with other members in the various forums and threads could go a long way in this endeavor. Of course God can find this special someone anywhere that He chooses, the key is to prepare to act if God provides an opportunity for you to end your loneliness.
 
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lightangel

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Thank you for your genuine kind words they mean a lot.
I will have a look at other forums as well and tryouy to also share and interact on this site giving more on what you have said in your post.
"Christian life is meant to be lived in company with others; not alone; spur one another on towards love and good deeds and meeting others".
 
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lightangel said:
Hi i am a Christian male living in a lonely world with no family or friends. My wish is for prayers to meet a loving woman who will be special in here qualities because she would have been sent from God and His plan for us.
I am 48 from London and still look much younger but that fear still sits in my mind what about If i never meet anyone; and the question "how will i meet them" i cannot see anything happening and been on my own for nearly 3years.
Please pray that i to deserve happiness and allow me also to make someone else happy in their life so we both can breath fresh air again.
I am a simple person just after a simple life wanting nothing more than wanting to be with someone and God in our lives.
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Volunteer. Go out and do something for people who need it. It gets you out of your loneliness, helps you meet new people, and who knows, maybe one of them is HER?
 
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lightangel said:
Hi i am a Christian male living in a lonely world with no family or friends. My wish is for prayers to meet a loving woman who will be special in here qualities because she would have been sent from God and His plan for us
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Hi lightangel, and Welcome.
Since you live in London, surely there must be several evangelical or fundamentalist churches in that city (since that is where you would find Christian women). If you are already a member in one of them, then that is where you should focus your attention, and possibly visit other similar churches. Then make friends by inviting singles (men and women) to your home for some fellowship. Unless you are prepared to take some initiative and be more outgoing, you may not find the one you are looking for.
 
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lightangel

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Thanking you for your reply i was in a home group but never felt connected and it became a pretty large group and people started to create their own smaller groups and i felt left out.
I am however looking to enter another home group with the church i attend.
 
Nehemiah6

Nehemiah6

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lightangel said:
Thanking you for your reply i was in a home group but never felt connected and it became a pretty large group and people started to create their own smaller groups and i felt left out.
I am however looking to enter another home group with the church i attend.
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That sounds good. Then invite some of those individuals to your own home separately (just for a meal or refreshments and fellowship) and get to know them. If there are both men and women included then you will have several Christian friends, after which you can hopefully get better acquainted with some suitable sisters in Christ, and take it from there.
 
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