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    FIRST OFF: As believers before marriage (I am assuming, so correct me if I err), you two were involved in fornication with each other and you make no reference to that being disobedience to the love laws of Jesus. There ARE consequences for sexual sin outside of marriage. Do you see that you were walking in sinful behaviour by having sex outside of marriage?

    Do you recognize that getting married before God and in the congregation of other believers (again an assumption on my part, worthy or correction) was a very reverent and solemn act of Covenant making with God and other believers and that making this Covenant while walking in sexual sin before marriage is a serious matter?

    Let's start there...
    Lord, I choose to recognize and relate to You: Jesus Christ of Nazareth, within, as my All-in-All! (My old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. (Galatians 2:20 - New Living Translation))

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    Quote Originally Posted by blue_ladybug View Post
    Tell him that you know he's masturbating, that you can hear him, and ask him why he feels the need to have sex with himself instead of with you..
    Quite bluntly, that is not a wise thing to do.
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    Why not? At the very least, maybe it will embarass him into stopping..


    Quote Originally Posted by Willie-T View Post
    Quite bluntly, that is not a wise thing to do.



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    Go talk to your pastor.
    People are offended that God is God.

    Oh, my brethren! bold-hearted men are always called mean-spirited by cowards. - Charles Spurgeon

    Open Theism and Molinism, two inept theological camps, do err in this sense; God doesn't have an R&D department, He does all things perfectly.

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    And, he should be playing with HER, not himself.. JMO


    Quote Originally Posted by blue_ladybug View Post
    Why not? At the very least, maybe it will embarass him into stopping..



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    Quote Originally Posted by blue_ladybug View Post
    Why not? At the very least, maybe it will embarass him into stopping..
    Castrating a rapist will also stop him from that activity, but it is probably the most dangerously deadly thing that can be done. So is deliberately embarrassing your husband about his sexual deviancy. Fastest way in the world to kill your marriage.
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    Have a respectful conversation with him and ask him to block porn from his phone. Then when he gets home from work and has time to rest get into the Song of Solomon in the Bible. Wowee, romance abundant.

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    Hi there,
    I would just like to assure you that there is nothing about you that you need to work on or change in this situation. It is incredibly damaging to tell a woman she should do more because her husband is looking at porn. He's cheating on you, that's why it's so incredibly painful. If he acknowledges that, you should seek help together. I hope everything works out and you get the marriage you deserve.

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