Yes, I agree, it is very hard not be anxious when our children are suffering...it is during those difficulties- when it seems that there is nothing we can do, that we turn to our Lord, Jesus. The Bible says in 1 John 1:9 'If we confess our sin [that worry, that anxiousness] He is just to forgive us and cleanse us of all unrighteousness.'
God already knows all of our difficulties and anxieties; He already knows how our trouble will be resolved. Since God already knows, why confess. Amazing things happen when we confess- Remember God already knows our worry(He is all powerful, all knowing and all present) but He is waiting for us to tell Him. Why? Because as we confess our sins, that is, agree with Him that our way of thinking is wrong (worry or any other ungodliness), and His is correct- we will begin to draw closer to Him; we will become dependent on our Lord. That is His desire.
As we begin to have a deeper relationship with God and His Son Jesus, He will give us what we need (not what we want)- He will give us what we need. Even though our circumstances all around us, our world is falling apart- He will give us a peace that surpasses understanding. The worry will fade to peace.
Look what happened to Peter in Mathew 14:14-32
[FONT="]24 Meanwhile, the disciples were in trouble far away from land, for a strong wind had risen, and they were fighting heavy waves. 25 About three o’clock in the morning Jesus came toward them, walking on the water. 26 When the disciples saw him walking on the water, they were terrified. In their fear, they cried out, “It’s a ghost!”[/FONT]
[FONT="]27 But Jesus spoke to them at once. “Don’t be afraid,” he said. “Take courage. I am here!”[/FONT]
[FONT="]28 Then Peter called to him, “Lord, if it’s really you, tell me to come to you, walking on the water.”[/FONT]
[FONT="]29 “Yes, come,” Jesus said.[/FONT]
[FONT="]So Peter went over the side of the boat and walked on the water toward Jesus. 30 But when he saw the strong wind and the waves, he was terrified and began to sink. “Save me, Lord!” he shouted.[/FONT]
[FONT="]31 Jesus immediately reached out and grabbed him. “You have so little faith,” Jesus said. “Why did you doubt me?”[/FONT]
[FONT="]32 When they climbed back into the boat, the wind stopped. 33 Then the disciples worshiped him. “You really are the Son of God!” they exclaimed.
Verse 30 says it clearly... Peter, like Jesus was walking on the water, but then Peter took his eyes off Jesus, immediately he noticed the wind and the waves. Peter should have kept his eyes on Jesus. When we take our eyes off Jesus; when we focus on our difficulties we too will sink, become overwhelmed; unsettled; worry and panic. We too must keep our eyes on Jesus![/FONT]