My wife is cheating with another women from the church

[1ofthem]

Yes, it would appear that Bigl8125 was Judy123 prior to being banned.. Its rather obvious when a new person posts about a personal problem and then disappears from the thread without responding. Probably an angry atheist who is rebelling against Christians for posting on an atheist forum? My wife is a lesbian and I'm glad she's happy? Please

Yep, and now she's got a creative name like Big L....hmm...I wonder what the L stands for....

 

[pckts]

Yep, and now she's got a creative name like Big L....hmm...I wonder what the L stands for....

Could be for liar too, definitely not linguist.

 

[tourist]

Could be for liar too, definitely not linguist.

I'm trending toward loon.

 

[WineRose]

Oh boy, since this thread isn't also locked yet, I can finally join in on the troll action! Wooooo!!!

Yep, and now she's got a creative name like Big L....hmm...I wonder what the L stands for....

I have a few guesses...

...L? As in, the anime character from Death Note? If so, that's cool. Anime is cool.

Lime?

Liquor?

Lemon?

Lizard?

Looney Tunes? I mean, Looney Toons is cool, too...

...Or maybe even LM4? If so...yeah, glitchy abominations are also cool in my book!

(Just putting this image here for the non-Pokemon fans...)



To the OP, look. I get it. You're trying to fool with us again. But at least have the decency to tell us the truth about this mystery...

 

[NotmebutHim]

And notice how the name is blue instead of pink.........

 

[EarnestQ]

Is this a case of throwing pearls of wisdom to swine trolls?

If the OP is legitimate, please explain why you think your wife is in such a relationship. What are the chances that she is feeling better because the therapy is working?

 

[MichaelOwen]

DO NOT CAST PEARLS AMONGST SWINE!

 

[EarnestQ]

DO NOT CAST PEARLS AMONGST SWINE!

There is something to be said for offering pearls of wisdom (which God gives us for free) to others because only God knows who is the true swine and who is stuck in the pig pen like me. I don't think we should hesitate to share wisdom unless it is clear the person rejects it totally.

 

[joefizz]

Don't give this person the chuckles she/he is looking for. This is obviously the same person that created the Judy account with her supposed daughter in a homosexual relationship with someone at her Church.

Imagine how bored you have to be to create a couple different accounts just to mess with Christians.

Yeah...did the happiness run out? did God become right or is someone trying to ride the fence?

 

[joefizz]

Hmmmm according to Big's account it's a guy,but not everyone is truthful when they come here,oh well they are just missing out on learning and finding genuine friends and more.

 

[joefizz]

There is something to be said for offering pearls of wisdom (which God gives us for free) to others because only God knows who is the true swine and who is stuck in the pig pen like me. I don't think we should hesitate to share wisdom unless it is clear the person rejects it totally.

Yeah but you gotta remember that the lost can be just as determined as genuine believers such as ourselves to stay in sin and delighting in it instead of delighting in God and accepting Jesus,so it can be a waste though there is merit to trying to help the lost that are determined not to change.

 

[Whackado]

You know, I don't know if the is a young girl, boy, man or woman, but Lord Jesus, I hold this person up to you in the name of Jesus. I feel that instead of being mad- we as Christians need to walk Your walk and talk Your talk. Sure it's annoying that someone would do this, but perhaps we should all put prayers forth for this person. Lord pray that you keep her/him and that you soften their heart and heal the deep seeded hurt that this person may have. We can look at this as an attack on our online community, or we can take the opportunity to give some whole hearted prayers for someone who probably doesn't have a lot of people praying for them. In Jesus name I pray protection over this person's mind, body and spirit. I pray that you put Godly people in their path and let them come to know you Lord Jesus. Amen.

 

[Bigl8125]

Is this a case of throwing pearls of wisdom to swine trolls?

If the OP is legitimate, please explain why you think your wife is in such a relationship. What are the chances that she is feeling better because the therapy is working?

We have had a lot of hard times in our marriage and I’m not getting into details because it’s obvious this chat site is full of hate but it’s been a while since she has been joyful. I believed it was the talking with the councilor and it probably was but now not coming home at night she started smoking and the text messages on her phone I think its probably best just to end it but we have children and 11 years of marriage to consider. I am no victim but she doesn’t know i know.

 

[trophyofgrace]

agreed
just happend to me too

 

[trophyofgrace]

if you need to talk to a positive friend pm me

 

[Prov910]

We have had a lot of hard times in our marriage and I’m not getting into details because it’s obvious this chat site is full of hate but it’s been a while since she has been joyful. I believed it was the talking with the councilor and it probably was but now not coming home at night she started smoking and the text messages on her phone I think its probably best just to end it but we have children and 11 years of marriage to consider. I am no victim but she doesn’t know i know.

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More than hate this site is full of skepticism towards new posters. A fair percentage of people who sign up on this site are here solely to troll Christians. As a result the people who post here are wary of new users--especially a new user who signs up with an initial post about their wife cheating with another woman and seems very happy in her newfound homosexual relationship. Can you understand the skepticism? Can you understand why the regular posters here might think this is a new poster with some sort of agenda, rather than a fellow Christian reaching out for help?

In any case, whether you are a fellow Christian seeking solace or yet another poster here to troll, I pray that you will find a solution to your issues.

 

[Dan58]

We have had a lot of hard times in our marriage and I’m not getting into details because it’s obvious this chat site is full of hate but it’s been a while since she has been joyful. I believed it was the talking with the councilor and it probably was but now not coming home at night she started smoking and the text messages on her phone I think its probably best just to end it but we have children and 11 years of marriage to consider. I am no victim but she doesn’t know i know.

If true, you are a victim, a victim of a cheating wife.. Tell her what you know or suspect and put all the cards on the table. If infidelity is making your wife "joyful", do you really want to be married to that? Time to communicate with her directly and find out what exactly is going on, then you can make the right decision.

 

[MichaelOwen]

We have had a lot of hard times in our marriage and I’m not getting into details because it’s obvious this chat site is full of hate but it’s been a while since she has been joyful. I believed it was the talking with the councilor and it probably was but now not coming home at night she started smoking and the text messages on her phone I think its probably best just to end it but we have children and 11 years of marriage to consider. I am no victim but she doesn’t know i know.

God's word teaches us that if a brethren offend us to pull them off to the side and straighten it out, and that also applies to you and your wife. If you truly suspect she is doing things behind your back, and you have info on this, you need to confront her. Be bold, God made you the husband for a reason and it's your right to know. If anything, God may convict her on it and turn her away from it. Remember, God can accomplish anything he wants, and it may not be in the time that we want, but God's timing is always perfect.

 

[zeroturbulence]

1. What makes u think its the female counselor?

2. Why is it only her seeing the counselor?

3. What reason does she give for not coming home at night?

4. What exactly does "children of 11 years of marriage" mean?

 

[tourist]

We have had a lot of hard times in our marriage and I’m not getting into details because it’s obvious this chat site is full of hate but it’s been a while since she has been joyful. I believed it was the talking with the councilor and it probably was but now not coming home at night she started smoking and the text messages on her phone I think its probably best just to end it but we have children and 11 years of marriage to consider. I am no victim but she doesn’t know i know.

This site is not full of hate. You asked for advice and several members responded. Yes, you are in a hard situation but I'm sure that several members have prayed for a peaceful resolution.