My wife is cheating with another women from the church

[MarcR]

Not long ago my started to be counciled by another women from the church and i have reason to believe they are now in a romantic relationship. We have children careers I don’t know what to do. My wife a really hard life growing up and I’ve never seen her so happy and I think it’s because of the affair and this is dumb but I almost don’t want to say anything and keep letting her i don’t know so she continues to be happy but this is crazy. What do I do?

I know that many women tend to be physically demonstrative both with other women and with men whom they regard as friends, without any sexual intent. Before you presume a romantic attachment, you would do well to make sure that her behavior is really inappropriate

 

[oldethennew]

and, you might want to 'check' your behavior as well...it couldn't hurt,..

 

[pckts]

Why are we believing a marriage counselor at the church started a homosexual relationship with the person she was counseling?

Why do we believe that the man discovered this with text messages and "just wants her to be happy"?

Is this how the church or Christian men act? This is a liberal fantasy of the corruption of religion and marriage.

 

[preacher4truth]

I’m not getting into details because it’s obvious this chat site is full of hate

You've already gotten into details, so, too late. Also, practicing Proverbs 14:15 isn't hate, it's wisdom. You came here to announce how happy people are when they practice sodomy. That was your objective. "Another" poster did the same thing at the same time you did. Many don't buy your story.

 

[preacher4truth]

Why are we believing a marriage counselor at the church started a homosexual relationship with the person she was counseling?

Why do we believe that the man discovered this with text messages and "just wants her to be happy"?

Is this how the church or Christian men act? This is a liberal fantasy of the corruption of religion and marriage.

I'm not buying it and the clincher for me that it appears fake is when he lauded the happiness piece. Um. No.

 

[MultilingualMessenger]

We have had a lot of hard times in our marriage and I’m not getting into details because it’s obvious this chat site is full of hate but it’s been a while since she has been joyful. I believed it was the talking with the councilor and it probably was but now not coming home at night she started smoking and the text messages on her phone I think its probably best just to end it but we have children and 11 years of marriage to consider. I am no victim but she doesn’t know i know.

You're not getting into details because you haven't made the details up yet.

I pity the honest person that comes here with a problem...

 

[pckts]

I'm not buying it and the clincher for me that it appears fake is when he lauded the happiness piece. Um. No.

And when we foiled there plan to let us know it was a trick to "test" us, they responded with the defensive and cliche 'yall just full of hate. Then minutes later this other anonymous person decided to make an account to let us know the 'same thing' happened to her, and then the two took there realistic and serious conversation private.

I just hope everyone is happy.

 

[MultilingualMessenger]

And when we foiled there plan to let us know it was a trick to "test" us, they responded with the defensive and cliche 'yall just full of hate. Then minutes later this other anonymous person decided to make an account to let us know the 'same thing' happened to her, and then the two took there realistic and serious conversation private.

I just hope everyone is happy.

It's funny, because the other person said "agreed" and there was nothing to agree to...The OP's question was "what do I do" and the other random person said "agreed"...

 

[pckts]

It's funny, because the other person said "agreed" and there was nothing to agree to...The OP's question was "what do I do" and the other random person said "agreed"...

I think they agreed we were full of hate. And then these two accepting, loving, and rational individuals took their conversation private, because it's above all those people who took it seriously and actually gave good advice.

If she's so happy and joyous why did she start smoking? Maybe stress because the Christians won't accept her.

These kind of people take fault with Christianity because they believe God should be all-accepting, all-loving, all the time and there should be very little structures or rules for the creation. They want a free pass to do whatever they want and not be accountable for sin, just as they are allowed in this society that has led them astray.

So they come here in an attempt to point out the "flaws" in our logic, because to them the correct way is to be "accepting" of any kind of behavior that "makes you happy". This lack of understanding of our mentality is what allows us to see these stories for what they are, if they didn't claim to be Christians I would definitely entertain them more.

 

[preacher4truth]

And when we foiled there plan to let us know it was a trick to "test" us, they responded with the defensive and cliche 'yall just full of hate. Then minutes later this other anonymous person decided to make an account to let us know the 'same thing' happened to her, and then the two took there realistic and serious conversation private.

I just hope everyone is happy.

It is also noted the person had very poor typing in the OP, then the next post wasn't typed so poorly.

 

[preacher4truth]

It's funny, because the other person said "agreed" and there was nothing to agree to...The OP's question was "what do I do" and the other random person said "agreed"...

lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz...!