My wife is cheating with another women from the church

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Bigl8125

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Not long ago my started to be counciled by another women from the church and i have reason to believe they are now in a romantic relationship. We have children careers I don’t know what to do. My wife a really hard life growing up and I’ve never seen her so happy and I think it’s because of the affair and this is dumb but I almost don’t want to say anything and keep letting her i don’t know so she continues to be happy but this is crazy. What do I do?
 
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Hmmm, sounds just like another thread. "The sodomite is so happy, what should I do?"
 
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Susanna

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I can't say for sure, but threads like this are flooding Commerce Street these days.
 
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Well...I don't think so maybe you should ask her about it n if so...then u talk on way forward but not keep silent bout it
 
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"Happiness" isn't everything. Adultery is sin.

Hopefully her increased happiness is because of the counseling itself, and not adultery; after all, people who get the counseling they need (assuming she needs it, because of her "hard life") tend to be happier. But, seeing as though you have found good reason to suspect an affair, I would suggest you pray and investigate. Ask her for an honest and complete description of her relationship with her counselor. You need to know.

My prayers are with you.
 

Demi777

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I find it a bit harsh to accuse a woman to have an affair with another woman.. i don't know what to say
 

Magenta

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What kind of church would employ a lesbian in the
role of Christian marriage counseling for women?
 
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What kind of church would employ a lesbian in the
role of Christian marriage counseling for women?
Do we know that it's marriage counseling? I thought marriage counseling was something that couples did together, right? (I'm not married nor am I a marriage counselor, so I wouldn't know...) If so, then seems to me he would have more than a suspicion, since he would have been there himself...

But anyway, yeah...having a lesbian in that position would be strange...
 

PennEd

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Don't give this person the chuckles she/he is looking for. This is obviously the same person that created the Judy account with her supposed daughter in a homosexual relationship with someone at her Church.

Imagine how bored you have to be to create a couple different accounts just to mess with Christians.
 

tourist

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If she is having an affair let her be happy somewhere else. There is no need for you to be her doormat. Consult a divorce attorney and then change your locks. Glad to have you join us. Welcome to CC.
 

Tommy379

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Do we know that it's marriage counseling? I thought marriage counseling was something that couples did together, right? (I'm not married nor am I a marriage counselor, so I wouldn't know...) If so, then seems to me he would have more than a suspicion, since he would have been there himself...

But anyway, yeah...having a lesbian in that position would be strange...
I've gone to marriage counseling by myself for the past two years. I still go after the divorce. It helps a little.
 
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Don't give this person the chuckles she/he is looking for. This is obviously the same person that created the Judy account with her supposed daughter in a homosexual relationship with someone at her Church.

Imagine how bored you have to be to create a couple different accounts just to mess with Christians.
I suspected so as well, I just responded for the sake of those who may really have this problem (or one similar). Guests seem to always be present on threads here.

Sometimes when it looks like we're "falling for it", we're really being strategic.

Trolls might as well bring it on. They may intend their posts for harm, but we can use them for good.

Feed us, trolls! ;)
 
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pckts

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Not long ago my started to be counciled by another women from the church and i have reason to believe they are now in a romantic relationship. We have children careers I don’t know what to do. My wife a really hard life growing up and I’ve never seen her so happy and I think it’s because of the affair and this is dumb but I almost don’t want to say anything and keep letting her i don’t know so she continues to be happy but this is crazy. What do I do?
My daughter is 15 years old. She has always been a nice girl and attended church with the family and seems to be of good christian faith. Recently, however, I noticed her spending a lot of time on tumblr.com, which I found out has a thriving gay community. This irked me, but it also does not mean that she was gay.

The other day she came up and told me that she was a homosexual and that she was dating a girl. She was very calm about it. I didn't know what to do. She hadn't shown any change in personality, she had still been going to church with us every Sunday, actively praying, and all the other regular practices. I don't understand what to do. I haven't talked to her about it much yet. She says she knows that it isn't right and that she will not be accepted by our church community.

Yesterday, she left her phone on. I wouldn't usually read through her texts because I know that's intrusive, but I saw a message from the girl, Kailee, who she claims to be her partner. She was sending a message about how much she meant to her. I scrolled back a bit and saw they were sending the most loving messages that looked as strong as the love between a woman and a man. I thought to myself, Is this really a sin? She seems so happy!

I love my daughter very dearly. It is clear that she is happy. I want her to be happy. But this is still a sin, what do you say I should do? I still need to have a big talk with her, I am just at a loss on what to say and I could really use some advice, thanks!
P S Y C H E .

This was a social experiment.
I am actually a teenage lesbian and not a Christian. I have no problem with Christianity, I just wanted to see how people would respond to the scenario of a woman who loves her daughter.
This is a mentally ill teenage girl trying to validate her lifestyle with lies. It's clear from the grammatical errors and distorted reality presented who the author is.
 

tourist

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Not long ago my started to be counciled by another women from the church and i have reason to believe they are now in a romantic relationship. We have children careers I don’t know what to do. My wife a really hard life growing up and I’ve never seen her so happy and I think it’s because of the affair and this is dumb but I almost don’t want to say anything and keep letting her i don’t know so she continues to be happy but this is crazy. What do I do?
You might consider taking an English class on writing.
 

Huckleberry

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Not long ago my started to be counciled by another women from the church and i have reason to believe they are now in a romantic relationship. We have children careers I don’t know what to do. My wife a really hard life growing up and I’ve never seen her so happy and I think it’s because of the affair and this is dumb but I almost don’t want to say anything and keep letting her i don’t know so she continues to be happy but this is crazy. What do I do?
Sock puppet?
Welcome!
Bye.
 

NotmebutHim

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I'll take a look at that other thread and report back.............:cool:
 

NotmebutHim

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People with too much time on their hands........sheeesh. :rolleyes:
 

NotmebutHim

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Sock puppet?
Welcome!
Bye.
That's why I'm suspicious of posts which are long paragraphs with bad spelling and grammar.

Really no different from Herod Antipas' desire to see a "magic show" from Jesus. :rolleyes:
 

Dan58

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Yes, it would appear that Bigl8125 was Judy123 prior to being banned.. Its rather obvious when a new person posts about a personal problem and then disappears from the thread without responding. Probably an angry atheist who is rebelling against Christians for posting on an atheist forum? :) My wife is a lesbian and I'm glad she's happy? Please