Please, friends. I need advice.

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RickyZ

RickyZ

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Salvation is an independent decision, but it's God's decision, not our individual faith's decision. And, yes, God does force. He told that to us often, and he showed it through Jonah. Thank him for forcing, otherwise none of us would be saved.

That said, God asks us to evangelize, he asks us to pray, and pray without ceasing, so whose decision it is isn't the argument. But it's also not the answer either.
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I would be interested to hear some scriptures that say God forces His will on us.
 
JoshMal

JoshMal

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Hi, rick.
'Thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven'. But God is so merciful that He ask us to come to with prayers and supplication, so we can get our heart's desire.
Yet, what God says is final. Whether one likes it or not, His will will be done. The good news is, His will is for all things to work for the good of all who love Him.
 
stand2

stand2

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Prayers for you both.....and may God richly bless each of you.
 
Dan58

Dan58

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Salvation is an independent decision, but it's God's decision, not our individual faith's decision. And, yes, God does force. He told that to us often, and he showed it through Jonah. Thank him for forcing, otherwise none of us would be saved.

That said, God asks us to evangelize, he asks us to pray, and pray without ceasing, so whose decision it is isn't the argument. But it's also not the answer either.
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I'd have to respectfully disagree.. Salvation is readily available to all who would accept Christ (John 3:16). It was God's decision to provide it, because its not His desire that anyone should perish (2 Peter 3:9). The ball is in our court now. And I don't believe God forces anyone, He guide's, directs, encourages, and leads, but the ultimate decision is ours.. jmo
 
OneFaith

OneFaith

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I’ve been in this situation, praying so hard for them for decades. And this is what I learned... On my part I should never pronounce it too late for them as long as they are still here, and I can be an encouraging influence, but I cannot not choose for them since they have their own freewill. And my time and efforts should be directed more towards others who might listen.
 
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