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    Default Re: Why are so many people on here mean and judgemental

    Honestly by your comment in others I don’t understand how this is a Christian chat site...the devil made this site to incite evil rehetoric
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    It’s easy to spew negativity in a place where you can hide your face
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    Heavenly Father,

    Interrupt this thread with Your forgiveness, love, peace and mercy. Bind the spirit of strife and cause it to cease, In the Name of Jesus.

    Forgive us, Holy Father and breathe Your Love in us and on us. Amen.

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    Default Re: Why are so many people on here mean and judgemental

    Quote Originally Posted by DinoPaul218 View Post
    How is it that senior members on here do not have the lord in their heart
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    My brother of only 41 took his last breathe Infront of me on Sunday of last week. He died of a rare cancer within a year of diagnosis. Me and him prayed so hard and put our faith in the lord and his favorite saint and they failed us. Plz tell me where God lives so I can go to his house and confront him. I have been very sick myself for a long time and never complained once about it to the Lord. Why has he taken the one thing I loved the most. My brother wanted to live so bad and fought so hard. I am not perfect but try to do the right thing. I do not want to die but death no longer scares me. The Lord has taken everything from me. I told my brother don’t worry I’m coming to him soon.


    it seems to me youre judging where others hearts are for trying to correct you about praying to saints...


    first
    im sorry your trials right now feel overwhelming
    may God bless you
    and put His hands in your life to work all these things for good

    bring you joy
    and assurance
    and peace
    and wisdom

    AND patience


    well i agree with lynn you are wrong for praying to a saint

    and i disagree with you her heart is not on the Lord


    i can be a character witness
    though sometimes she is brash

    and takes the gloves off

    i have seen good fruit in her first hand

    standing up against someone who was lying about me

    and encouraging me after

    when everyone else took the other persons side
    without even reading my words
    (i deleted my first account)


    this place is filled with brothers and sisters all in different spots in their walk WITH Christ

    some have different gifts than others

    some have different weaknesses or faults


    God has used these different members of the body
    to work patience in me

    and soften me while at the same time giving me a thicker skin

    please dont be so quick to judge someone elses heart


    lets focus on doctrine

    and be forgiving and longsuffering towards eachother


    again

    im sorry youre hurting so much right now

    and i wish you the best

    i hope God uses this place as a blessing

    wether it be by reproof
    or encouragement or both
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    Dear Heavenly Father,

    I repent and ask for Your forgiveness for every time I've ever been mean or judgmental towards You, others and myself. Also, I forgive all people that have ever been mean or judgmental towards me on CC or even in my entire life.

    Please heal our hearts and minds and cause a right spirit to be in us - a meek and gentle spirit. Help us to be pleasing in Your sight, In the Name of Jesus. Amen.

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    To the OP, YOU are spewing alot of negativity of your own on here. And you take us to task for it? Look in the mirror first. All anyone on here has done is try to correct you about praying to saints, console you on the loss of your brother, and assure you that God DOES care.

    But you're so blinded by anger and hate right now, that all you can see is more negativity, that you erroneously perceive as coming from us.. Try adopting a more positive mindset for once...



    Blue ladybug, fearless leader of the orange kitty battalion! She loves orange tabbies and is innocent as decreed by Pottersclay who states that Scripture says that all people who love orange tabbies are innocent. Truthtalk says that God created the world, and then He created wonderful orange tabbies. Joefizz has elected blue ladybug as captain of the brave orange kitty ​army!



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    Quote Originally Posted by MissCris View Post
    I agree. Christians are to be salt and light; compassionate; set apart. When a brother or sister grieves, we should grieve with them. Yet so many people on this site don’t see much of that happening- in my time here, I’ve seen so many posts lamenting the fact that the “Christians” on this site are basically clanging symbols and resounding gongs- where is the love?

    So, I stand by what I said- people are people where ever you go. You can walk into just about any church anywhere and find the same problem; self-proclaimed Christians bearing no fruit and spreading their own misery as far and wide as they can. But also, Christians who love. The type who see someone new walk in and go straight to that person, greet them, hug them, draw them into the fold.

    There are tares and wheat here just like in churches- God will sort that out. For now, for ourselves, the “wheat” just has to focus on what God wants it to do. The rest is irrelevant.
    Yes, there are Christians who are saved, and then there is the minority, who are sanctified.
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    And Lord knows I could have been a little more even tempered at times myself...
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    Quote Originally Posted by blue_ladybug View Post
    Some people survive cancer, some do not. I'm one of the ones who did. But a few members' spouses here have died, losing their battle with cancer. We get sick as a result of the fallen world we live in. So you can't blame God for not healing your brother. Maybe through all this, He has a lesson that He wants YOU to learn.

    Such as, to stop living with hate, anger and hurt in your heart..
    The other element in all this is that God has revealed a way to stay healthier longer then the average person, but very few Christians avail it.
    So who is responsible when we get sick, us or Him?
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    And now these three remain; faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
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    Neither. It's the fallen world we live in. You can have the best diet in the world, best lifestyle, etc and STILL get sick...


    Quote Originally Posted by JosephsDreams View Post
    The other element in all this is that God has revealed a way to stay healthier longer then the average person, but very few Christians avail it.
    So who is responsible when we get sick, us or Him?
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    Blue ladybug, fearless leader of the orange kitty battalion! She loves orange tabbies and is innocent as decreed by Pottersclay who states that Scripture says that all people who love orange tabbies are innocent. Truthtalk says that God created the world, and then He created wonderful orange tabbies. Joefizz has elected blue ladybug as captain of the brave orange kitty ​army!



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    Quote Originally Posted by blue_ladybug View Post
    Neither. It's the fallen world we live in. You can have the best diet in the world, best lifestyle, etc and STILL get sick...
    Lord, I know I'm the clay and You're the Potter........can You make me healthy and skinny?! Please.

    (DISCLAIMER: To whomever this post might offend, I'm only kidding!) LOL!

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    Default Re: Why are so many people on here mean and judgemental

    Quote Originally Posted by Lafftur View Post
    Lord, I know I'm the clay and You're the Potter........can You make me healthy and skinny?! Please.

    (DISCLAIMER: To whomever this post might offend, I'm only kidding!) LOL!
    I'll add 20 years younger. Ok a lot wealthier would be the icing on the proverbial cake.

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    Default Re: Why are so many people on here mean and judgemental

    I don't think people are mean and judgmental on here.

    Maybe some are, maybe not...but so what?

    People need to stop acting like snowflakes...it's just words on a screen.
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    Quote Originally Posted by blue_ladybug View Post
    Neither. It's the fallen world we live in. You can have the best diet in the world, best lifestyle, etc and STILL get sick...
    Blue you surprise me. Who is responsible for being kicked out of the garden of eden into this fallen world?
    Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.
    John 8:32

    And now these three remain; faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
    1 Cor. 13:13


    Give ​peas a chance !



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    Quote Originally Posted by Susanna View Post
    People need to stop acting like snowflakes...it's just words on a screen.
    Words can be very powerful, and the pen (now keyboard) is mightier than the sword. However, when someone shares something on the Internet -- which is open to the whole world -- there are bound to be all kinds of responses, from mean and judgmental to kind and helpful.

    A word of caution for Christians -- we are required to weigh our words carefully, since we will be judged by our words as much as by our deeds. God does not appreciate idle talk from Christians.

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    You're right about that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Susanna View Post
    I don't think people are mean and judgmental on here.

    Maybe some are, maybe not...but so what?

    People need to stop acting like snowflakes...it's just words on a screen.
    Oh the humanity of it all. I'm melting, I'm melting.

    Joh 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.

    Jesus would be considered mean because He said unbelievers are condemned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DinoPaul218 View Post
    Honestly by your comment in others I don’t understand how this is a Christian chat site...the devil made this site to incite evil rehetoric
    This comment is totally uncalled for, but if that is your opinion, why don't you simply move on? Don't hang around and everyone will be happy.
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    Default Re: Why are so many people on here mean and judgemental

    It's inevitable; someone comes here and starts going on about how mean and judgmental Christians are, and eventually shows his/her true colors, and perhaps even the reason why he/she came here (namely to get rises out of us).

    Lather, rinse, repeat............
    So you're telling me this is a signature line??

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