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Tommy379

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I say again, leave your parents, join the Army.
 
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#22
you have stated that your parents are 'christians', yet don't want or won't allow you to date
a Christian man - something very amiss in this here thread...HELLO!!!
 

Ams123

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you have stated that your parents are 'christians', yet don't want or won't allow you to date
a Christian man - something very amiss in this here thread...HELLO!!!
They don't want me to date anyone at all. Specifically a Christian young man I met and we both are best friends and want a relationship. They believe they should be the ones to tell me who to be in a relationship with and when.
 
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Pontiac

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They are wrong about that ... God is the ONE to guide you as to who to date and who to marry ... Your parents are not to choose your life-long mate ... Honor them, but realize they are not always correct in everything ... Some decisions you must muster the courage to make between you and God ... Your parents are not to script your entire life from beginning to end ...
 

Uhhhhh

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If your parents are unnecessarily forceful, that's one thing. Bad on them. However, if they were and are Christian, they were to reward you for good and love your good and correct you for bad and hate your misbehavior as you grew. No man or woman has ever not needed corrected. Be thankful or whatever that you were corrected appropriately... If you were. Your parents, more than likely, dropped the ball here and there, like everyone... And did they get away with it? If so, well God knew and knows what's up. Now. If you leave them to be alone... There's that. Don't leave on bad terms if possible. However, if you go off to live with someone else, what might happen there? You will not wind up living with God in the flesh. Nope, that's after the rapture. Sure, living alone will keep you from hearing basically someone else's face to face verbal abuse, but then you gotta be good to you, and you'll still hear maybe about verbal abuse of you, though it wasn't done to your face. Now... Maybe one should say, it doesn't matter where you go or how old you are... Your parents will always be your masters. You can sin against them perhaps even when you're miles away from them for 10 years straight. But, you know, people have lived together in all sorts of combinations... But which combinations are appropriate. I mean, if you're not marrying or something... Then again.... One should take a stand for who should live with married couples, maybe even if one is married or not. Like I may have also heard before.... Christians maybe shouldn't live in the same house as non Christians, besides spouse and maybe children.
 

Uhhhhh

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Do remember, Isaac's wife was of the sort his parents wished, and his father's servant actually went out and asked Isaac's soon to be wife to... Well... I'd have to check. And she consented to whatever it was the servant asked, and he asked for Isaac I suppose because he witnesses her do something the other women did not do. And she went to Isaac and they married.
 

Uhhhhh

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But yeah... You listen to God over anyone. That's how the apostles put it. People tried telling them what to do and they said just that.