Hello everyone,
I'm new here and the reason I joined was for some Christian discussion. I'm at a lonely place in my life. I also needed some advice about family problems. I'm 20 years old, a woman and still living at home. I've been told by some people that my parents have problems and it's taken me awhile to see it. They control every aspect of my life. They tell me what to wear, what to listen to, what friends to have, they don't want me getting a job or having a Christian boyfriend. They guilt me if I have different convictions then them. They say I'm a rebel and ungodly for wanting a little more freedom. They have to know everything I do and I'm not aloud to text friends. My social media is monitored. I have never given them any reason to think I'm immature or irresponsible. They have held me back from being able to become an adult because of these things. I want peace between my parents and I but there is no talking through things with them. I kinda want to move out of the house but they are of the mindset that women shouldn't be independent like that.
I'm not sure what to do. Any advice would be great.
I'm new here and the reason I joined was for some Christian discussion. I'm at a lonely place in my life. I also needed some advice about family problems. I'm 20 years old, a woman and still living at home. I've been told by some people that my parents have problems and it's taken me awhile to see it. They control every aspect of my life. They tell me what to wear, what to listen to, what friends to have, they don't want me getting a job or having a Christian boyfriend. They guilt me if I have different convictions then them. They say I'm a rebel and ungodly for wanting a little more freedom. They have to know everything I do and I'm not aloud to text friends. My social media is monitored. I have never given them any reason to think I'm immature or irresponsible. They have held me back from being able to become an adult because of these things. I want peace between my parents and I but there is no talking through things with them. I kinda want to move out of the house but they are of the mindset that women shouldn't be independent like that.
I'm not sure what to do. Any advice would be great.