Wired to not need them so much

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Uhhhhh

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In this life, man or woman falls into two categories. Single. Married. The married man does not need any woman as much as his wife. The married woman needs no man as much as her husband. That's where the free time comes in. Man and/or woman works. A lot of time that work is done not around the spouse. So.. Work takes a lot of time up, but not all their time. And that time a man or woman is not working should have time with spouse in it. And then if you got children and spouse, clearly the children are in the free time also. Now. Does that mean all free time is spouse and child time? Maybe most of it is... Or half.. So, of course, singles should realize, their free time is going to be time with other singles, or should be, although, there are many married couples who might be able to spend some time with singles, well like their children for sure... But spouse and child must more regularly be around spouse and parent... Or something... No. And perhaps that's what married and single people want. Neither really wants to be around each other to a certain point... Not too much, not too little... But maybe still more or less than we have done or know.
 
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your only 'thirty', and obviously are very immature!!! sounds like you want to 'ditch' your children'...,
and everything 'in-between'...

hard lesson to learn, once you have done the deed, you're hooked, unless for those that don't care,
they're complete 'losers', no chance, it's obviously ALL ABOUT THEMSELVES', at any 'cost'...

you and yours are in our prayers...
 

Uhhhhh

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I suggest you reread. I'm just trying to help people set up a routine.... Or look at routine different. Okay. Also... Yeah... You don't know my situation. You don't know how I was raised. You don't know how the woman who gave birth to my children was raised or what she has gone through. It's hard enough to do God's will without this kind of message.. Which I guess I didn't have to read. You can guarantee I've sinned... Just like you... Just not exactly. I cannot force anyone to act right... Sheesh, I don't even hardly believe in divorce of spouse who hates other spouse... Don't mean everyone believes that. If she wants to go, and she doesn't believe in Jesus, I'm supposed to pack her bags... Not spit on the apostles. Okay.
 

Uhhhhh

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And sure... Maybe losers is a good name for certain folk. And sure... They call me all sorts of things... And have... Since I was a little child. Anyhow.
 

Nehemiah6

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Not too much, not too little... But maybe still more or less than we have done or know.
So what you are saying is maintain a balance in your daily schedule. Nothing wrong with that. But before that one should have a set of priorities based on what God says.
 

Nehemiah6

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And sure... Maybe losers is a good name for certain folk. And sure... They call me all sorts of things... And have... Since I was a little child. Anyhow.
What people call you should be simply ignored. What do God and Christ call you? That's critical.
 

Uhhhhh

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I have read what you all have written. Tell me more
 

Uhhhhh

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If you want to. Do you want to?
 
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AuntieAnt

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your only 'thirty', and obviously are very immature!!! sounds like you want to 'ditch' your children'...,
and everything 'in-between'...

hard lesson to learn, once you have done the deed, you're hooked, unless for those that don't care,
they're complete 'losers', no chance, it's obviously ALL ABOUT THEMSELVES', at any 'cost'...

you and yours are in our prayers...



YIKES!! That's one way to unnerve peaceful unsuspecting folks in the Christian Family Forum.
:p

Let's take it down a notch, why don't we. ("Losers... you're in our prayers." Really??) *sigh*
:(
 

BenFTW

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YIKES!! That's one way to unnerve peaceful unsuspecting folks in the Christian Family Forum.
:p

Let's take it down a notch, why don't we. ("Losers... you're in our prayers." Really??) *sigh*
:(
Must've thought they were in the BDF.
 

Lighthearted

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If you want to. Do you want to?
Absolutely! If people would take the fruit of patience and read what you're trying to say...they will start to understand what you try to get across. There is a very deep thought process going on in that brain of yours. There will be some that will never quite get you...but God does:) What is your story? Your testimony? I have read your poems...perhaps you could share your testimony in the testimony forum sometime?