In this life, man or woman falls into two categories. Single. Married. The married man does not need any woman as much as his wife. The married woman needs no man as much as her husband. That's where the free time comes in. Man and/or woman works. A lot of time that work is done not around the spouse. So.. Work takes a lot of time up, but not all their time. And that time a man or woman is not working should have time with spouse in it. And then if you got children and spouse, clearly the children are in the free time also. Now. Does that mean all free time is spouse and child time? Maybe most of it is... Or half.. So, of course, singles should realize, their free time is going to be time with other singles, or should be, although, there are many married couples who might be able to spend some time with singles, well like their children for sure... But spouse and child must more regularly be around spouse and parent... Or something... No. And perhaps that's what married and single people want. Neither really wants to be around each other to a certain point... Not too much, not too little... But maybe still more or less than we have done or know.