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actually i don't know where to start but i've been married for quite a time already. i experience ups and downs with regard to my married life. i really do not know if the negative things and the fights are just the result of my being immature, as what some people would say to me. But, is it bad if i expect my husband to be at home with me every night? for several years already i just ignore or tolerate my husband's coming home late because of work, because he's out with friends, most often single friends (women or men). But he's a good husband. he provides us with the things we need. it's just that i can't really grasp why he still feels bored and look for female friends to be with him when in fact he already had access to all technologies in the world (internet, cellphone, ipod,etc). i have learned that for several times he's been contacting different single female friends through emails/phones by telling them he is bored and that he missed them. (of course, the mails went this way : i'm bored, i have nobody to talk to. why were you not contacting me anymore? i miss you.) And when he's with me, he'd always tell me that he had a lot of things to do at work, he needs to find more money, etc.that is why he comes home late. i am not really stopping him to be with friends from time to time but i am uncomfortable when he's out with female friends or a female friend alone, ... i don't know...actually i'm confused. i have been thinking of leaving him...so he can do what he wants without having to fight with me. am i just overreacting?