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Hello room. how is everyone? i am a proud dad of 3 kids. fraternal twin girls age 14 yrs. and a son age 11 yrs. I have been married twice. The 1st marriage was 8 yrs long, and the 2nd lasted 4. Both marriages were bad because both wives were unfaithful to me. the stressful problems I am having is my kids seem to not wanna be around me. They are very foul mouthed, disrespectable,against other races of people,act vulgar at times and are physically abussive to one another. I attend church and try to raise them with a christian outlook on life, while their mother shuns her parental responsibliities, and relies on the kids to fend for themselves. She is a negative role model when around them. she lets them date boys up to age 17 when in her custody. She talks vulgar in front of them, as well as does sexual things with her boyfriend within their hearing ability or eyesight. How I know this is my kids told me it. She also leaves the three kids at home while her and her boyfriend go get liquor. It hurts me that although I try to raise them to be good, they druther be with their mom because apparently their is very few if any rules at her home, and they pretty much do as they please. I am a grown man, but I sometimes feel like crying inside my heart. Whenever my kids rebel against me or say bad things towards me, I tend to think back when they were only 4 yrs. old and as sweet as honey. My daughters use to smile so cute and give me a hug and kiss and tell me: ''I love you daddy''. I feel like somewhere along the way I messed up as a parent. I reckon the divorce caused alot of the hostility. But their mom is the one with all the bad habits and bad influences. I do not lie, cheat or steal. I do not smoke, drink or do drugs or abuse others,but even so I still feel like the bad guy ! Any advice is appreciated,Ty and GOD BLESS............