As a Christian, I'm so confused....
Married 14 years, 3 beautiful children. My husband has always been somewhat controlling, but in the past 2 years controlling has turned into severe emotional abuse, use of pornography and operating a business that is illegal. (tax evasion)
My Christian background keeps me thinking, save the marriage. Stay by his side no matter what. Support his hopes and dreams, even if they compromise the 10 commandments.
He goes to church with me every Sunday. I pray that he will realize what he is doing is wrong and that he must ask for forgiveness...but he doesn't feel that he's doing anything wrong.
I'm ready to leave, I have a plan 80% in place to remove myself and my children in the next 30 days, but I just can't help but think that God would want me to stand by him in his troubled time.
Any and all advice is appreciated.