Does God punish

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Kw

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my husband and i tried to get pregnant and i would pray and pray about it. i told myself that God would allow me to concieve in his own time. Well a long while later i lost faith and my husband and i were seperated and i commited adultery. To find out later , i was pregnant. and i didnt know if the father was my husband or not. I prayed and asked God for forgiveness and i repented so much! My husband forgave me and were doing great! But did God punish me for my sin. people have told me that his punishes to teach us becuz he loves us and all things will eventually work out but its so hard for me to believe this. i want to give up hope sometimes becuz i dont understand how i can get pregnant just like that when before i would try and pray and pray about it. its a downer.... i love God and i suffer becuz of my actions every single day and i dont understand. i would love to find out that it is my husbands and this happened to save my marriage but i dont know. any advice would be appreciated.
 
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trueimage15

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its great that you are pregnant and everything and that youve asked for forgiveness. In all truthness God has forgiven you so that you may move on, not believing this is giving in to the doubt the enemy wants you to have so that you would lose faith and hope in Jesus. we all make mistakes and can handle them however we want to but the right way of handling it wont make you feel bad. Jesus wants you to cast all your burdens on him, to lighten the weight on your shoulders, but he cant do that until you give them away. so let go of the past and live for the future the way God has intended you to. does it really matter to you whose the baby's is? didnt you husband forgive you? do you doubt that he will love the child you conceive any less if he found out it wasnt his? this is what youve wanted, prayed for, tried for rejoice and be happy! thank god and pray blessings over the wonderful gift God has given you. yes God punishes sins but he also forgives them. Jesus came for that purpose. things happen for a reason, by making the right choices we can head back on the path God has especially prepared us for so that our purpose may be fulfilled. Dear sister in Christ do not lose faith but in every circumstance pray:)
 
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trueimage15

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1. choose to spend time with God
2. choose God's way at every opportunity
3.commit yourself to God daily

Proverbs 31:30

go to God daily in your secret place- the place where you secretly go to God and enter into his presence

praying and studying God's word daily and unhurriedly ensures your spiritual health and growth, support, and help in trouble(Psalm 84:7)
being in pursuit of God allows us to exchange what we dont want for what we do
ex: weakness for His power, hopes for His promises, problems for His solutions, burdens for His freedom
Psalm 1:1-3
Jeremiah 17:7-8
Isaiah 58:11
2 Corinthians 4:8-9

Develop the habit of drawing near to God
Design a personal time for drawing near to God
Detail your daily progress

Prayer increases Faith
Prayer provides a place to unload burdens
Prayer teaches us that God is always near
Prayer trains us not to panic
Prayer changes lives

Luke 18:1
1 Peter 5:7
Psalm 46:1-2
Psalm 121:1-2
Jeremiah 33:3

Matthew 7:7-8
Romans 12
Phillipians 4:6-7
Colossians 4:2
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
Hebrews 4:16
1 Peter 3:12
 
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trueimage15

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Gosh that was alot lol. look youre a great person and i can tell without even knowing you because you fear God and have come to a christian advice website instead of something bad or whatever. sister I dont care what youve done only about what you plan to do, I love you, God loves you, and thats enough:) thats what my pastor says lol

I got these verses and directions from a book called The Elizabeth George Young Woman's Collection. on the back it says Are You Ready for an Amazong Journey?
Feel free to pick it up, its a really great book that is self explanatory and simplified, a great secret place study kind of book too:)

I strongly encourage you to take my posts seriously. prayer and submission to God is the only true way to get through the problems of the world and true Christians are needed throughout. I have faith in you so please please put your faith back into Jesus and work on your relationship with him as I am doing so that we may stand firm against the enemies attacks together with our other fellow brothers and sisters in Christ

Also please email me if you have any questions, advice, or feedback I'd love to hear how youre doing:)
 
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Choome

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aw i know your going through tough times but trust me you will get through it..i feel unforgiven sometimes also, but just knowing that he's waiting for you to come back to him makes all the difference..theres always times in our life where we want to give up and doubt god's goodness..but if you think about it hes givinh you the strength to deal with all these problems..The baby is a blessing and no matter what if your sure your husband loves you he will stick with you until the end..Us humans are not made to understand fully what life is about..All we can really do is accept the way things are and put it behind us, otherwise we will hurt ourselves thinking about it..I hope i somewhat helped you and things will go well in time. :)
 

shemaiah

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Nope, God doesn't punish us on earth, but we may just be open to attacks coz we leave Him. His grace and mercy are always with us and they 'keep' us from His wrath. God bless
 

Kathleen

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Does God punish?

I would have to say yes, i belive he does. They are not PUNISHEMENTS, per say, they are excerices, given to you. Life is like a series of tests, you need to think about all the possible answers and pick the best one, if you fail to pick the best one, generally there consequences. There is a verse in the bible, "you reap what you sow" ...if you do good, you will be rewarded and vis versa.

God loves you and always will. All you need to do is repent, apologise to the Lord. Apologise to your husband. Pray that the Lord answers your prayers, and that the child is your husbands. Thats all you can do at the moment.

Im praying, for you, your husband, your marriage, and the little child inside you.
 
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Jullianna

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my husband and i tried to get pregnant and i would pray and pray about it. i told myself that God would allow me to concieve in his own time. Well a long while later i lost faith and my husband and i were seperated and i commited adultery. To find out later , i was pregnant. and i didnt know if the father was my husband or not. I prayed and asked God for forgiveness and i repented so much! My husband forgave me and were doing great! But did God punish me for my sin. people have told me that his punishes to teach us becuz he loves us and all things will eventually work out but its so hard for me to believe this. i want to give up hope sometimes becuz i dont understand how i can get pregnant just like that when before i would try and pray and pray about it. its a downer.... i love God and i suffer becuz of my actions every single day and i dont understand. i would love to find out that it is my husbands and this happened to save my marriage but i dont know. any advice would be appreciated.
You say have repented of your sin and it has been forgiven. Even your husband has forgiven you. Sometimes it takes a bit longer to forgive ourselves for the things we do, huh?

I pray that God will join your family together in His love and that you and your husband will be lovingly kind to one another as you take on the responsibility of this child God has entrusted to you.
 
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Dynomom53

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Our God is loving, merciful and so much more! I have been praying for healing in my body for 25 years and still no answer but I don't blame God nor am I angry with Him. We live in a fallen world and we just don't have all the answers to our questions. That's where our trust in Him must grow. A loving God does not allow bad things in our lives to "teach" us! There is always an opportunity to look to Him, trust and lean on Him. I am still not there yet!
I ran a crisis pregnancy center and strangely also ran a "Infertility Support " Bible Study" ! If I remember, all but one woman went on to conceive. God does not hold back to punish us, by not giving out something that He clearly says in the Word, is a blessing: Children! We cannot understand fully His ways but remember some day we will see "clearly". stay strong and may our wonderful Lord fulfill the desires of your heart!!
 
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Dynomom53

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I apologize, I misread about the pregnancy. Other than the infertility comment, I stand by the rest of my post!
I agree with some of the other posts. If we repent of our sins, God is faithful to forgive. :) It is more difficult to forgive ourselves, but all that shame and fear you may feel comes from the enemy. God wipes our plate clean!! Praise Him for His grace (unmerited favour!)
 
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TDWP22

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He doesnt punish, He corrects
 
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Brandon777

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God punishes (Hebrews 12)

But did God punish me for my sin. people have told me that his punishes to teach us becuz he loves us and all things will eventually work out but its so hard for me to believe this. i want to give up hope sometimes becuz i dont understand how i can get pregnant just like that when before i would try and pray and pray about it. its a downer.... i love God and i suffer becuz of my actions every single day and i dont understand.
Did God punish you for your sin? Well we don't nor can we know for sure if He did, but what we do know is that God punishes those He loves. Hebrews 12 Therefore let us also, seeing we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, lay aside every weight and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us, 2 looking to Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising its shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. 3 For consider him who has endured such contradiction of sinners against himself, that you don’t grow weary, fainting in your souls. 4 You have not yet resisted to blood, striving against sin; 5 and you have forgotten the exhortation which reasons with you as with children,“My son, don’t take lightly the chastening of the Lord,nor faint when you are reproved by him;6 For whom the Lord loves, he chastens,and scourges every son whom he receives.”*7 It is for discipline that you endure. God deals with you as with children, for what son is there whom his father doesn’t discipline? 8 But if you are without discipline, of which all have been made partakers, then are you illegitimate, and not children. 9 Furthermore, we had the fathers of our flesh to chasten us, and we paid them respect. Shall we not much rather be in subjection to the Father of spirits, and live? 10 For they indeed, for a few days, punished us as seemed good to them; but he for our profit, that we may be partakers of his holiness. 11 All chastening seems for the present to be not joyous but grievous; yet afterward it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been exercised thereby. 12 Therefore lift up the hands that hang down and the feeble knees, † 13 and make straight paths for your feet,‡ so that which is lame may not be dislocated, but rather be healed. 14 Follow after peace with all men, and the sanctification without which no man will see the Lord, 15 looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it; 16 lest there be any sexually immoral person, or profane person, like Esau, who sold his birthright for one meal. 17 For you know that even when he afterward desired to inherit the blessing, he was rejected, for he found no place for a change of mind though he sought it diligently with tears. 18 For you have not come to a mountain that might be touched, and that burned with fire, and to blackness, darkness, storm, 19 the sound of a trumpet, and the voice of words; which those who heard it begged that not one more word should be spoken to them, 20 for they could not stand that which was commanded, “If even an animal touches the mountain, it shall be stoned§ ”;** 21 and so fearful was the appearance, that Moses said, “I am terrified and trembling...

Will all things eventually work out? The Scripture says "All things work together for good to those who love God" And if you want encouragement here Read the last two chapters of the Bible. I strongly suggest it.

When you say, "its a downer...." in your message I can't help but think you're one of the many Christians who were taught one way or another that only good things happen to God's chosen people. That's certainly not the case. Life happens. Whether you're a follower of Christ or not. Angels are not here to make sure life's hardships don't reach us, they are here to fight powers of evil and occasionally give a message from God or perform a miracle. Take a look at these powerful Scriptures. 2 Timothy 3:12 Yes, and all who desire to live godly in Christ Jesus will suffer persecution. 1 Thessalonians 3:4 For most certainly, when we were with you, we told you beforehand that we are to suffer affliction, even as it happened, and you know. Hebrews 11:25 choosing rather to share ill treatment with God’s people, than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a time. Seeing a pattern? Being godly means suffering is supposed to happen. If you aren't godly then suffering can still come to you just like any other purpose, it just comes from our own stupidity instead of a servitude for God. Being rebellious to God is going to backfire either way, whether its hear on earth or when we're judged on Judgement Day.

i would love to find out that it is my husbands and this happened to save my marriage but i dont know.
Anyone would. But you don't know what? Are you doubting God's goodness? It happens to the best of us. Even John the Baptist doubted God's goodness and He was the most holy human except Jesus. Trust me, if God set up creation to be very good in the beginning and promised it was going to be better at the end, I would trust Him. Remember we are in the middle of those to things, so it's the most difficult time to believe that God is good, because creation messed itself up so bad. Wait for God to fix it. The day will come! Keep hope, and keep seeking God!
 
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my husband and i tried to get pregnant and i would pray and pray about it. i told myself that God would allow me to concieve in his own time. Well a long while later i lost faith and my husband and i were seperated and i commited adultery. To find out later , i was pregnant. and i didnt know if the father was my husband or not. I prayed and asked God for forgiveness and i repented so much! My husband forgave me and were doing great! But did God punish me for my sin. people have told me that his punishes to teach us becuz he loves us and all things will eventually work out but its so hard for me to believe this. i want to give up hope sometimes becuz i dont understand how i can get pregnant just like that when before i would try and pray and pray about it. its a downer.... i love God and i suffer becuz of my actions every single day and i dont understand. i would love to find out that it is my husbands and this happened to save my marriage but i dont know. any advice would be appreciated.

Well, that's really great you and your husband are still together. IMO, and in the opinion of the Bible, God forgives and forgets our sins. Heres some Scripture:

King James Bible
There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.

And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.

-God is on YOUR side, NOT against you!

If GOD be for us WHO can be against us?!


God loves you and knew before you even existed on this earth that you would do this. And YET, he still choose to save you. To punish you? Of course not, but to bless you. We all sin, it's just that everyone can see yours cause of the child, but it's no different than any of ours, only ours are secret and yours is public. God wants what's best for you, period.

John 3:17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.
 
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