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I just completed a study on Marriage,Divorce and Remarriage and I understand what I've read in the scriptures In my study I found that my wife and I are living in an adulterous marriage after 22 years of marriage plus another 10 years of being together for a total of 32 years .My wife and I are new Christians and were Baptized into the body of Christ in 2006 since then he has Blessed us so much we give him praise in all he does for us !
Here's are problem were in jeopardy of losing our salvation with God if we don't correct our marriage,I'll explain!
My wife and I both were previously married her marriage failed do to her ex having several wives while married to her but unfortunately she didn't know this beforehand so she got a divorce from him, Now from my study I've learned that she was free to remarry and that her divorce is scriptural.
Now in my previous marriage with my ex was do to irreconcilable differences which in God eyes is unscriptural, I must note here that I never had an extramarital affair ,as far as I know nor did my ex wife but only she and God know that answer .
My wife asked me if I knew for certain that my ex didn't have an affair while we were married and I told I don't know I just don't know !! (If she had this would allow us to be married)
With this uncertain answer and from what I understand from scripture not only are we living in a adulterous marriage were living in it everday day even by asking God for forgiveness not until we get out of ( divorce) our marriage are we forgiven, It's just mocking God !! This would be the only way to make this right with God to get our salvation back and staying single and salabit the rest of our life!
So my question is this do you , give up on 22 + years of your marriage on something that is uncertain to make it right with God,to lose ones salvation ? our salvation is everything to us so is God, Were everything to each other, This doesn't only effect my wife and I but our children,grandchildren,family,our family in Christ at our Church having to go out and start another house hold up ,respect from all the above.
Two things come to mind in all of this and that is this , ( 1) If you deny before man I'll deny before thy Father ! ( 2 ) John 3:16 ,God tells us to Love him above everything to me this means to free our marriage for our salvation,Even if It means for me to have to lose my salvation I want my wife to save hers at all cost !
I hope everyone can understand what I've posted , God Bless
Here's are problem were in jeopardy of losing our salvation with God if we don't correct our marriage,I'll explain!
My wife and I both were previously married her marriage failed do to her ex having several wives while married to her but unfortunately she didn't know this beforehand so she got a divorce from him, Now from my study I've learned that she was free to remarry and that her divorce is scriptural.
Now in my previous marriage with my ex was do to irreconcilable differences which in God eyes is unscriptural, I must note here that I never had an extramarital affair ,as far as I know nor did my ex wife but only she and God know that answer .
My wife asked me if I knew for certain that my ex didn't have an affair while we were married and I told I don't know I just don't know !! (If she had this would allow us to be married)
With this uncertain answer and from what I understand from scripture not only are we living in a adulterous marriage were living in it everday day even by asking God for forgiveness not until we get out of ( divorce) our marriage are we forgiven, It's just mocking God !! This would be the only way to make this right with God to get our salvation back and staying single and salabit the rest of our life!
So my question is this do you , give up on 22 + years of your marriage on something that is uncertain to make it right with God,to lose ones salvation ? our salvation is everything to us so is God, Were everything to each other, This doesn't only effect my wife and I but our children,grandchildren,family,our family in Christ at our Church having to go out and start another house hold up ,respect from all the above.
Two things come to mind in all of this and that is this , ( 1) If you deny before man I'll deny before thy Father ! ( 2 ) John 3:16 ,God tells us to Love him above everything to me this means to free our marriage for our salvation,Even if It means for me to have to lose my salvation I want my wife to save hers at all cost !
I hope everyone can understand what I've posted , God Bless