can anyone offer me advice. My stepdaughter is 16. She's having sex with her boyfriend (and was when she was 15), she lies all the time and steals. I have no idea how to deal with her as everything I've tried has been thrown back in my face, this has been going on for the 9 years we have been together. My husband can't make anything of her either. I am at my wits end and am having serious issues with my faith regarding her. Can anyone tell me how I should approach her?