AFRAID IVE LOST MY WIFE FOR FOREVER

[LIVEANDLEARN]

WE ALL HAVE TO BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR OUR ACTIONS. I CHEATED ON MY WIFE. REGARDLESS OF THE REASONS WHY, AND WHAT I FELT WAS NOT RIGHT FROM HER END, I AM DEAD WRONG AND I KNOW IT, AND WHEN CONFRONTED WITH IT DID NOT DENY ANYTHING. I LOVE MY WIFE WITH ALL MY HEART, MIND, BODY AND SOUL, BUT I ALLOWED FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS TO INTERFER WITH THAT LOVE.I MADE MY BED AND I HAVE TO LAY IN IT, BUT I DO NOT BY ANY STRETCH OF THE IMAGINATION WANT TO LOSE MY WIFE. IT HAS BEEN A WEEK SINCE OUR INCIDENT, AND A WEEK OF NOT SEEING HER OR TALKING TO HER. NOT TO APPLY FOR ANY SYMPATHY, BUT I HAVE BEEN ABLE TO DO NOTHING BUT CRY, WHILE TRYING TO STAY POSITIVE AND PRAYED UP. I KNOW THAT THE LORD CAN WORK THIS OUT, AND ALREADY HAS WORKED THIS OUT, ITS JUST NOT TIME FOR ME TO KNOW YET.

 

[RickShafer]

You are showing Godly sorrow, which leads to repentance.
Hang in there brother!
There are better days ahead.
(God controls the heart,......even the heart of your wife)

 

[LIVEANDLEARN]

DEFINATELEY REPENTING. HANGING ON STRONG, PRAYER AND FAITH IS A POWERFUL THING, AND MY PRAYER AND FAITH ARE STRONGER THAN EVER. AND IM SO GLAD GOD CONTROLS THE HEART, BOTH OF OUR HEARTS.

 

[RickShafer]

Yes! God doesn't see marriage as the world does.
It is one of the three ordinations.
Infact it is the first one.
1. Family
2. Church
3. Government
(Now the world has this order backwards. Thus government pays women to have babies out of wedlock) - Welfare.
But being that as it may,.......God will not let your marriage end over one mistake.
It's just not going to happen.
God will reinstate it.
Why?
Because it is His perfect will.
You have repented. You are not continuing in the act of adultery.
As long as you hold fast to your repentance(meaning not cheating again), God will
honor the contract with Him you had with your wife.
God controls the heart.
See what He did to Pharaoh's.
Jesus will reunite you and your wife.
I am certain.
She is hurt, she needs to see how sorry you are.
God will hold her for you until she is ready to see you.
Don't worry; He will do it.
Just stay where you are; stay repentant.
God WILL be with you.
Jesus!........(Isn't He good!)

 

[RickShafer]

Yes! God doesn't see marriage as the world does.
It is one of the three ordinations.
Infact it is the first one.
1. Family
2. Church
3. Government
(Now the world has this order backwards. Thus government pays women to have babies out of wedlock) - Welfare.
But being that as it may,.......God will not let your marriage end over one mistake.
It's just not going to happen.
God will reinstate it.
Why?
Because it is His perfect will.
You have repented. You are not continuing in the act of adultery.
As long as you hold fast to your repentance(meaning not cheating again), God will
honor the contract with Him you had with your wife.
God controls the heart.
See what He did to Pharaoh's.
Jesus will reunite you and your wife.
I am certain.
She is hurt, she needs to see how sorry you are.
God will hold her for you until she is ready to see you.
Don't worry; He will do it.
Just stay where you are; stay repentant.
God WILL be with you.
Jesus!........(Isn't He good!)

 

[RickShafer]

I posted it twice.
Because it's from God.

 

[Crimson_Lark]

No one can tell you what your wife will decide.

Wait and see.

 

[LIVEANDLEARN]

GOOD IS AN UNDERSTATEMENT. I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A BELIEVER, FEEL LIKE THIS SITUATION WAS/IS A DEFINATE TEST OF MY FAITH ALSO. A TEST I WILL PASS. I DONT THINK I HAVE EVER BEEN MORE OF A BELIEVER. I FEEL LIKE HE HAS TOUCHED ME AND ALTHOUGH I HAVE SINNED AGAINST HIM AS WELL, HE STILL WILL NEVER LEAVE ME IN THE MIDST OF THIS STORM. RICK SHAFER, YOUR LAST WORDS REALLY TOUCHED ME DEEP, AND WERE POWERFUL. AS IF THE LORD WAS SPEAKING TO ME THROUGH YOU.