I have been married for two months now and I'm really struggling. My husband plays video games all the time and I feel neglected and alone. We live at least 30 minutes away from any town and I'm not used to it so I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm being selfish needing his attention all the time but it makes me feel unloved and ignored all the time when he goes straight to the xbox as soon as he gets home. What should I do?
My first question is, you didn't know he did this before you got married? How long did you know each other before you got married? And, you didn't know he did this before you got married?
Sorry, not meaning to harp, but just a word out to those out there reading these posts who are thinking about marrying someone they don't know enough about... you should know he does this kind of stuff before you marry him. And vise versa.
Again, sorry if that's a bit rough. You touched a nerve I guess.
As for your situation, learn that x-box. Sit down next to him, pick up that controller and
learn it. Then give him a challenge and kick his arse, that'll make him notice you. Then with his attention drawn your way, you can draw him away as well. To a PS3!