The brick wall is them not listening and me not being comfertable talking to them. I dont see my boyfriend as a way to ascape my parents because I'm not trying to escape I'm just trying to find God's will in my life. And right now all i really know is that i love my boyfriend deeply and i belive God put us together for a reason. What that reason is I'm still trying to figure out.
I reach out accross the oceon in love, never ending.
I understand completely what a brick wall is. But it is not always easy to define which is the brick wall and which is the one trying to break it down (talk to it). A brick wall is someone who will not accept "
My" point of view.
Not quite sure how old you are but I reckon I was where you are now about 45 years ago. I have been there and in 40 or 50 years you will be where I am now. I am not a parent, God has chosen for me not to be, But I have shared the traumas of young people, like yourself, who had (dare I say)
brick walls for parents. In almost every case where we were able to comfront them and speak together the brick wall transformed into a thin curtain and fell off its runners.
Talk with them, dont raise your voice and if they raise theirs just sit quietly and let them exaust themselves, then restate your case. But Listen to them as well.
If you are talking to God, listen to Him. He is not a brick wall, but His answer is sometimes "NO!"
Again, God Bless you
IChThUS