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Ok, my son is 18 and suppose to graduate this June. At least that is the plan. It's getting closer and the school just sent home the list of dates and prices for all the festivities. My sister has offered to pay for Grad Night, the cap & gown rental, announcements, etc. and take us all out to dinner after the ceremony, make it a real celebration. I praise God for her on a daily basis. However, my son has no interest in all this. He says he'd like to go to the Grad Night party at Disneyland if he can it but it's no big deal if he doesn't.
I tried talking to him about the Graduation ceremony, how he'll regret it if he doesn't go and sending out the announcements is a big deal, family members expect them. I also explained that family and friends can be very generous when it comes to graduation. He said that everyone will be asking him what he's going to do now and since he has no plans or job this will ruin the night because he'll have no answer. He can get very silent and sullen when he's in a bad mood or something rubs him the wrong way and then he refuses to talk. He can get teary eyed easily when upset as well, which I think worries him.
I'm praying for God to give him the wisdom he needs to get through this, do what he needs to do and to realize this is important and he will regret it if he blows it off. Any other ideas on how to get him more excited about this would be greatly appreciated, I'm heart broken that he just doesn't seem to care. (not that this is a new attitude, I've fought against this since his freshman year).
There is the possibility that he won't graduate, his grades are not what they should be but he is doing better this semester, has an extra class to make up credits and has everything in place to do it.
Thank you for "listening", please pray for him. I wish I could get him excited enough to want to do this and appreciate what is being offered to him. Again, thanks to everyone.
I tried talking to him about the Graduation ceremony, how he'll regret it if he doesn't go and sending out the announcements is a big deal, family members expect them. I also explained that family and friends can be very generous when it comes to graduation. He said that everyone will be asking him what he's going to do now and since he has no plans or job this will ruin the night because he'll have no answer. He can get very silent and sullen when he's in a bad mood or something rubs him the wrong way and then he refuses to talk. He can get teary eyed easily when upset as well, which I think worries him.
I'm praying for God to give him the wisdom he needs to get through this, do what he needs to do and to realize this is important and he will regret it if he blows it off. Any other ideas on how to get him more excited about this would be greatly appreciated, I'm heart broken that he just doesn't seem to care. (not that this is a new attitude, I've fought against this since his freshman year).
There is the possibility that he won't graduate, his grades are not what they should be but he is doing better this semester, has an extra class to make up credits and has everything in place to do it.
Thank you for "listening", please pray for him. I wish I could get him excited enough to want to do this and appreciate what is being offered to him. Again, thanks to everyone.